I am sorry the last few months have been so tough, made even more so by having someone who has a platform to do so much good wasting it on endless streams of shite.Sorry for being snappy, she is rubbing me up the wrong way over this Louisa business and I am being overly sensitive.
I am in the vulnerable group, as is Jack (according to her). My partner lives down south and works in Westminister (Fancy), similarly to Jack's partner. We have taken this pandemic seriously, and as my health could be compromised by exposure to Covid, we have taken the difficult decision to have not met up since Manchester went into local lockdown, months ago. But here is Jack thinking about ways to bypass and stretch the rules and push the exemptions to the extreme. The rules are there to protect the vulnerable. She is treating it all like a game. She just plumbs greater depths every day.
Covid is all fun and games for Jack, giggling because she has got her wealthy girlfriend back. Louisa might not have the wealth of Allegra, but she has a great income to keep Jack in Cotswolds and showering her with expensive Dyson products. All the time Jack carries on scamming the poor for her day to day expenses. Louisa should be ashamed.
All the time I am doing my bit to ensure this pandemic doesn't spread, Jack is selfishly carrying on as normal. If Jack does contract Covid from her London based girlfriend, I will have no sympathy. A bubble is not intended to sate the desire for a shag.
One good thing though, my partner will be moving to Manchester sometime next year to head up a department that is moving a large contingent of staff up here (). I will not, like Jack has done, carry on as if I am on a limited income because my circumstances will have changed.
Of course she doesn’t! She gets her frozen tiny veg deliveredDoesn't hang out in Waitrose, eh? *raises sceptical eyebrow*
That fridge is bigger than my flat. I still can’t believe people give her money believing that she’s poor.View attachment 302514View attachment 302516
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Jack, nobody needs to know any of this. Nobody truly gives a shit. Stop.
I don't understand. Imminent?
Yes I thought she scampered around in her thermals to keep warm?more controlling nonsense, labelling the fridge stuff.
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And her kitchen is always hot? But I thought she was freezing cold like Bob Crachit?
Thank you for sharing the trauma bonding insta link - really interesting. I'm not trivialising it when I say that some of the symptoms are displayed by JM's squiggles. I was a squiggle to the point that I found this site whilst googling to find the link to JM's tip jar because I'd been sucked in by the £20 shops and the trolley grift. Even being part of this group makes me wonder whether JM still has too much of my attention, but tbh, now I'm now here for the laughs and honesty of a great group of people.I've been feeling a bit uncomfortable with some of the comments about Louisa being stupid to go back to Jack, that she knows what she's like, that she is an intelligent woman with a high powered job so it's her own fault.
I realise that this is because I have been in a similar situation (though my narc was way more covert and I wasted 6 years trying to help him) so it is triggering to me. It may not be what is going on in this situation at all, but it does look very similar.
I hope this link works, as it's the best information I have found on the subject to explain it to people.
Trauma Bonding
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