Pretty sure contact is sporadic. I get the impression it’s I’s choice not to go.
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She’s a bright girl, I’d say she knows exactly what he’s like.
So this is gonna be their content for the next 6 months then?!
Oh, please God, no. Tales of Jens anxiety for the next six months like during covid.
Not belittling anxiety - I suffer too. Just no need to try and make a social media account happen out of it.
They have nothing else now I is of the age she is. When I looked at their page yesterday, for the first time in about a year, there is literally zero content/post/stories now. Chatter here has died to nothing so they have zero troll oxygen to feed on. Essentially they are irrelevant and faded into obscurity from which they came from.
Why is she so needy.
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Ted is probably going to emigrate to Australia the first chance he gets, I’ve never known such a needy, clingy parent.
On about her son like he’s living her dream. Behave Jen and grow up.
She does know that no one apart from her cares about her son going travelling.
They are acting like he's dead!!
I’m sick to death of seeing her moaning about her night shifts and not seeing her husband get vegan tit food then this. Is it me or is she having a go at family’s not visiting? Just do your job. She’s so boring. As someone whose lost people to dementia it’s not as easy as it may seem and paying to have them in a care home is not an easy choice.
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Working in dementia care, she should know better than to shame families. Having a parent with dementia is the worst thing that I have ever had to cope with. everyday is a fight for them to get care. no one gives a tit, not the care home, not GPs. Relatives have to battle constantly and on top of that, going to visit is another mental and emotional battering. There are so many reasons that families may not visit often. top of the list - their own mental health is in the toilet. It doesn’t mean they don’t care, it’s actually the opposite. The more you love someone, the harder it is to watch them
deteriorate and self preservation kicks in.
I was the first to say I would be there for my parent everyday if they ever went into a home. in reality, it was there years of fighting on their behalf for the most basic of things, the anxiety of knowing that when you went to visit, there would be another issue to complain about, the guilt, the Stress. I couldn’t visit all the time for my own sanity. Three years of of that before my parents death at Christmas has left me with severe anxiety and PTSD.
So Jen can duck right off.
There are so many reasons that people don’t visit.
My mum never visited her dad in his care home. The reason she didn’t go is because he was an utter hole who was awful to his wife and kids when they were small including regularly leaving them without food, my mum was the eldest of a large family and saw it all. Just because someone is old or ill it doesn’t mean that they were a good person during their lives .
St Jen can shove her poorly educated views up her arse quite frankly.
My mum never visited her dad in his care home. The reason she didn’t go is because he was an utter hole who was awful to his wife and kids when they were small including regularly leaving them without food, my mum was the eldest of a large family and saw it all. Just because someone is old or ill it doesn’t mean that they were a good person during their lives .
St Jen can shove her poorly educated views up her arse quite frankly.
It was so ignorant of her to post that. She clearly has no clue.
Why is Jen working night shifts when lazy Al sits on his arse doing nowt all day.
Now come on he runs a very profitable business! (Vanity project)
Moving to the island now that I has seen the light and doesn’t want to see them!!! What have they turned ted into 