Yeah it is a weird spin on the situation isn’t it.
In a blended family the children are separated throughout the week but for the child who has both their bio (cheating) mum and (cheating) dad at home, doesn’t have to sleep in another house, have 2 rooms, pack up their bags etc, how can it be harder for the one who lives in the home all the time? (Cheats) don’t see it from I’s side, she’s had to get used to it and kids who go between houses have no choice but to get used to it. They (cheats) see it from T’s side because he’s no longer got a playmate at home, it is not the same thing!