Well done to @OneLineResponse for the winning thread title of 'It's the Ferguson’s #5 Led by Ted or Gaslit by Al. You decide?
Also credit to @Pumpkinandrose for the general overview on the last thread which I have copied over
1. Al cheated on his pregnant wife, Hannah, with Jen. Al claims him and Jen were only friends at the start, and it turned into something more. But he also claimed he fell in love with Jen when he first saw her. So which is it Al?
2. Hannah was working flat out in her job as a midwife, while carrying baby Isla, to make a decent life for her family. While Al was off bleeping another woman, without a second thought for his wife and unborn child.
3. Al left Hannah and Isla, 5 weeks after Hannah gave birth. He left his small baby for Jen, who he moved in with straight away.
4. Al never asked to have Isla stay over until she was four. But has made numerous claims that Hannah kept Isla from him, which simply isn't true. He was the one who walked away, leaving Hannah with all the responsibility of selling and sorting the house, while she had a newborn. But according to al, he was the victim!
5. Jen wasn't the only woman Al cheated on his wife with, there were others. Nice man!
6. Al was offered every Saturday with Isla by his ex-wife in court, but Al turned it down. He stated he needed that time to "get to know his new wife"
7. Al and Jen made a big post about "the first and last" pictures of Isla on their social media. Apparently, us trolls gave him no other option, not the fact all the posts with Isla were either a snipe at Hannah or a praise for how wonderful Jen is as a step mum. Not even a month later they started posting her again. And this time, with a serve disregard for her privacy.
8. The dads net is mostly in Jens name, so it looks as though al doesn't have a penny to his name. No money = no maintenance for Isla!
9. Al used to manipulate his visits with Isla by dropping her off late, knowing it would interfere with Isla and Hannah’s breastfeeding schedule. He did this to prove she didn't need to be breastfed.
10. Al was once confronted by someone in DMs about the stuff he puts up about Isla. In this conversation, the person questioned Al’s behaviour towards his ex-wife, Al replied with an article about woman who manipulate men into getting them pregnant. Implying he was forced into sex by Hannah, and that he didn't want Isla at all! This screenshot can be found on thread number 1!
11. When little Isla stays at Al and Jens, he will not allow her to do the following things;
12. Jen has mentioned at least 3 times that she made baby Isla a nursery. Never mentioned before! But how is it normal for Jen to make a nursery for a newborn, that isn't hers? Strange!
13. @ShhItsASecret came on and gave us some good goss. They have a mutual friend of al and Jen’s, and on a boys night out, al was telling all his friends how Jen didn't stop going out to see friends and family during lockdown, and the whole bleaching food on the doorstep was all for Insta. Who knew! Good detective work fellow tattler!
14. While on holiday in the IOW, they posted a note claiming to be from Isla to Jen. The note addressed to "mum" telling Jen how much she loved her. It was posted for their 30k followers to see. Another disregard for Isla’s privacy. The post received mixed reviews and was not their normal engagement. In fact a lot of their loyal sheep questioned the reason to post this and the wellbeing of Islas mum. Which raged al! All the comments questioning them were replied to along the following lines. "Isla calls Jen mum because her real mum lets Isla call her step dad, dad, I didn't like this and asked it to stop, it didn't so I said Isla wants to call Jen mum and they said that's okay" They have referred back to this several times since the holiday. The writing was also questioned as it looked like a younger child had written it (i.e. Ted but they claimed it to be Isla) They have posted Isla’s writing at a later point, clearly forgetting the story they spun, and the writing was very different. They have also refused to post Ted’s writing since
15. The black eye and domestic abuse saga was a strange one. Jen did a story of her and teddy. And mentioned her black eye. Another story saying nobody did it to her. It was strange. And very off. But the next day we were treated to a story of Jen say she had to post that because we are such awful trolls who said she was being abused, and backed this claim up with a screenshot of the pole at the top of thread three. Despite that being up for months and it having no connection. We still haven't figured out what she meant by that!
16. Al the cheat exploited a loop hole in his child arrangement order and collected I when school closed early without telling I’s mum, who only found out when she went to collect her from school thereby extending his time with her and taking away legitimate time I should have spent with her mum at the same time as promoting an ad for Tesco mobile about keeping in touch with loved ones.
Overview of thread 4
1. The loving insta posts continue. Al the cheat posts every week about how lucky they are to have each other. Us trolls think they're trying to keep up the act and pretend they're not desperately unhappy with their life. Al didn’t even by Jen any flowers for Valentines day and left it to Louis to sort out.
2. It was revealed in a comment on a post that Al and Jen are moving house in 18 months’ time. Probably because Louis will be 18 then and likely his dad will no longer let them live in that house rent free! I can’t wait for the shock they will get when they must enter the real world. No more rent-free life for them! They also moaned about several appliances in the house were broken and needed replacing in a house they all live in rent free – how awful.
3. They (Al cheated on his pregnant ex wife) still continue to post images of Isla and Ted in the bath to 30k followers, totally violating the privacy of their children and don’t see anything wrong with it as they seek consent from their 9 and 6 old (because at those ages, the children will fully understand the implication won't they!) They also posted a photo of Jen, Ted and Isla in the bath together.
4. The theme now is all ‘Blended family’ and 'co-parenting', blah blah blah. There have been postings saying how Jen is a ‘mum of 3’ and Jen posted a story as if to defend about how Isla’s step dad says he has 3 children so as to include Isla, so they are doing the same and that they had spoken to Isla’s family who were apparently ‘thrilled’ at this!! Al posted a story to say that Louis just calls him Al. Al also posted a story with him showing old photos of Jen pushing baby Isla in a pram as if to prove what a wonderful blended family they are/were
5. Jen bumped into a random old gentlemen in the street which quickly escalated to exchanging numbers, test messages and Jen cooking lunches for and then shared his messages with 30k followers, and given the increase number of like to normal on their grid, suspect they promoted the post. We've not heard much about this gentleman lately....
6. Over the course of thread 4, many Tattlers started to notice signs of Al’s controlling behaviour and potential Narcissism, especially when Jen started sharing home-schooling resources, such as the way he was always happy to have her do all the home schooling, the way she gave up a job she is clearly passionate and knowledgeable about, the way he will ‘big her up’ or love bomb her but then share stories about how the trolls are mean about how she looks.
7. On the 8th Jan they posted a story talking about all the fun dates they went on when they first met and then posted on 13th Feb how they didn’t get a ‘honeymoon period with no time to wine or dine and date footloose and fancy free’ So which version of their reality was it then?
8. Isla and Ted were given cushions with Jen (blowing a kiss), Al, Isla and Ted on so that Isla’s could take this back home to her mums for when they are apart, which would be nice if it wasn’t meant as a dig at Isla’s mum AND if Isla was allowed to contact her daughter or share her belongings between houses. Al tried to defend this in comments by claiming Isla had a photo of her mum at his house which has never been seen or claimed before.
9. Lots of sly dig at Isla’s mum such as Al the cheat not speaking the Isla on his Birthday, how Isla doesn’t use biological word for body parts, how family members are trolls, how the co-parenting is so much better with Louis' Dad etc etc etc.
10. Both still visit tattle for content but rather than screen shot the text they just retype it out to remove our reference to Al's behaviour.
11. Al shared a story of 7th February about how a group of six people continue to troll them and that he has employed a private investigator to obtain information on these people and that he knows their IP address (this lie that influencers spread explained here) and locations (which he shared) and stated these people are all known to them. The hilarious thing is most of us here don’t even live near them but they are that paranoid they believe we are. Also, despite his claims, no one here mentions Jen losing her babies which we all agree is terribly sad. Al even shared a part of his PIs ‘client report’ as 'proof'
12. Jen offered lots of support to parents home-schooling and we could all see she still has a passion for education and we gave her lots of positive comments. We did question why she left a profession she is clearly good at and passionate about. Al posted a story about how the trolls focus on Jen’s looks and how old she looks (we don’t really) then on 12th Feb Jen posted a story of a picture of her and Isla in which she claimed Isla said ‘Mum, my mummy said you need to put your chin in a bit more’ Again another dig at Hannah
15. On the 15th Feb Al posted a story saying they had had couples counselling. Al also stated that he was ‘navigating co-parenting through a surprised an unplanned pregnancy’ yet on 24th Feb in the epic two part grid post said how awful it would be for his kids to read things online but is happy to post these things himself. Jen also said Al had individual counselling to help with his ‘past issues’.
16. On the Maker of Boys, Jen said she felt like a failure and had mega guilt regarding Ted not have a sibling to play with and how Ted struggles with transitions within the house with Louis and Ted coming and going. Maybe the wonderful blended family isn't so happy and blended after all.......
17. Another sly dig at Hannah by Jen storying that she has a great co-parenting relationship wit Louis’ dad and how they put Louis at the heart of everything, therefore implying Hannah doesn’t
18. They posted a story asking for information on camera's as Ted was having night terrors that sound the same as when their neighbours have sex. Odd way to describe it and why include any reference to the neighbours or their sexual activity at all? why not just say they wanted recommendations
19 So we ended thread 4 with an epic two grid post on how 6 people related to the family are trolling them and how these people are same ones are the IP addresses he shared. They also said they have solicitor, police and private investigator support but have decided to not pursue to protect his family. In comments he said that he wonders what their employers and church would think if they knew. He was called out by @Mum0fboys about photos of the kids in the bath but then retaliated by reporting a photo on her profile of her kids (Childish) Lots of his follower jumped up in support of him and jumped on anyone who challenges him. There was one other follower who challenged him, and Al claimed that the follower knew Hannah. Al the cheat also claimed he ‘asked to leave’ long before he met Jen and that is why he was ‘subjected’ to Christian couple therapy to ‘try to fix him ‘(but he was happy to go to therapy with Jen??). In a post to a comment on he claims how it was unfair that Isla would have to read these things online as she now has a phone and is on social media. Al ended the comment by saying these ‘lies shouldn’t be written online for our children to read’ If I was Al the cheat, I would look closer to home first. Al also claimed that the 6 people had multiple fake accounts and even talk to themselves and answer their own posts....... Oh how we laughed (To ourselves obviously)
Just as a geneal reminder, this thread is about the way Al and Jen behave, we do not bring up the miscarriages or loss they have suffered. It is sad they lost those babies and we are not people to mock that. We won't give them any more reason to make out we are the bad guys.
Also when commenting please try and include a little message about their cheating antics. Eg.
Its stops them being able to use us for sympathy content. And it boils their piss!
Here’s to thread #5!
Also credit to @Pumpkinandrose for the general overview on the last thread which I have copied over
1. Al cheated on his pregnant wife, Hannah, with Jen. Al claims him and Jen were only friends at the start, and it turned into something more. But he also claimed he fell in love with Jen when he first saw her. So which is it Al?
2. Hannah was working flat out in her job as a midwife, while carrying baby Isla, to make a decent life for her family. While Al was off bleeping another woman, without a second thought for his wife and unborn child.
3. Al left Hannah and Isla, 5 weeks after Hannah gave birth. He left his small baby for Jen, who he moved in with straight away.
4. Al never asked to have Isla stay over until she was four. But has made numerous claims that Hannah kept Isla from him, which simply isn't true. He was the one who walked away, leaving Hannah with all the responsibility of selling and sorting the house, while she had a newborn. But according to al, he was the victim!
5. Jen wasn't the only woman Al cheated on his wife with, there were others. Nice man!
6. Al was offered every Saturday with Isla by his ex-wife in court, but Al turned it down. He stated he needed that time to "get to know his new wife"
7. Al and Jen made a big post about "the first and last" pictures of Isla on their social media. Apparently, us trolls gave him no other option, not the fact all the posts with Isla were either a snipe at Hannah or a praise for how wonderful Jen is as a step mum. Not even a month later they started posting her again. And this time, with a serve disregard for her privacy.
8. The dads net is mostly in Jens name, so it looks as though al doesn't have a penny to his name. No money = no maintenance for Isla!
9. Al used to manipulate his visits with Isla by dropping her off late, knowing it would interfere with Isla and Hannah’s breastfeeding schedule. He did this to prove she didn't need to be breastfed.
10. Al was once confronted by someone in DMs about the stuff he puts up about Isla. In this conversation, the person questioned Al’s behaviour towards his ex-wife, Al replied with an article about woman who manipulate men into getting them pregnant. Implying he was forced into sex by Hannah, and that he didn't want Isla at all! This screenshot can be found on thread number 1!
11. When little Isla stays at Al and Jens, he will not allow her to do the following things;
- wear clothes her mother has bought her.
-have any contact with her mother or stepfather for however long she is there.
-bring anything from her home that comforts her, he doesn't like anything from his exes to be in his house!
12. Jen has mentioned at least 3 times that she made baby Isla a nursery. Never mentioned before! But how is it normal for Jen to make a nursery for a newborn, that isn't hers? Strange!
13. @ShhItsASecret came on and gave us some good goss. They have a mutual friend of al and Jen’s, and on a boys night out, al was telling all his friends how Jen didn't stop going out to see friends and family during lockdown, and the whole bleaching food on the doorstep was all for Insta. Who knew! Good detective work fellow tattler!
14. While on holiday in the IOW, they posted a note claiming to be from Isla to Jen. The note addressed to "mum" telling Jen how much she loved her. It was posted for their 30k followers to see. Another disregard for Isla’s privacy. The post received mixed reviews and was not their normal engagement. In fact a lot of their loyal sheep questioned the reason to post this and the wellbeing of Islas mum. Which raged al! All the comments questioning them were replied to along the following lines. "Isla calls Jen mum because her real mum lets Isla call her step dad, dad, I didn't like this and asked it to stop, it didn't so I said Isla wants to call Jen mum and they said that's okay" They have referred back to this several times since the holiday. The writing was also questioned as it looked like a younger child had written it (i.e. Ted but they claimed it to be Isla) They have posted Isla’s writing at a later point, clearly forgetting the story they spun, and the writing was very different. They have also refused to post Ted’s writing since
15. The black eye and domestic abuse saga was a strange one. Jen did a story of her and teddy. And mentioned her black eye. Another story saying nobody did it to her. It was strange. And very off. But the next day we were treated to a story of Jen say she had to post that because we are such awful trolls who said she was being abused, and backed this claim up with a screenshot of the pole at the top of thread three. Despite that being up for months and it having no connection. We still haven't figured out what she meant by that!
16. Al the cheat exploited a loop hole in his child arrangement order and collected I when school closed early without telling I’s mum, who only found out when she went to collect her from school thereby extending his time with her and taking away legitimate time I should have spent with her mum at the same time as promoting an ad for Tesco mobile about keeping in touch with loved ones.
Overview of thread 4
1. The loving insta posts continue. Al the cheat posts every week about how lucky they are to have each other. Us trolls think they're trying to keep up the act and pretend they're not desperately unhappy with their life. Al didn’t even by Jen any flowers for Valentines day and left it to Louis to sort out.
2. It was revealed in a comment on a post that Al and Jen are moving house in 18 months’ time. Probably because Louis will be 18 then and likely his dad will no longer let them live in that house rent free! I can’t wait for the shock they will get when they must enter the real world. No more rent-free life for them! They also moaned about several appliances in the house were broken and needed replacing in a house they all live in rent free – how awful.
3. They (Al cheated on his pregnant ex wife) still continue to post images of Isla and Ted in the bath to 30k followers, totally violating the privacy of their children and don’t see anything wrong with it as they seek consent from their 9 and 6 old (because at those ages, the children will fully understand the implication won't they!) They also posted a photo of Jen, Ted and Isla in the bath together.
4. The theme now is all ‘Blended family’ and 'co-parenting', blah blah blah. There have been postings saying how Jen is a ‘mum of 3’ and Jen posted a story as if to defend about how Isla’s step dad says he has 3 children so as to include Isla, so they are doing the same and that they had spoken to Isla’s family who were apparently ‘thrilled’ at this!! Al posted a story to say that Louis just calls him Al. Al also posted a story with him showing old photos of Jen pushing baby Isla in a pram as if to prove what a wonderful blended family they are/were
5. Jen bumped into a random old gentlemen in the street which quickly escalated to exchanging numbers, test messages and Jen cooking lunches for and then shared his messages with 30k followers, and given the increase number of like to normal on their grid, suspect they promoted the post. We've not heard much about this gentleman lately....
6. Over the course of thread 4, many Tattlers started to notice signs of Al’s controlling behaviour and potential Narcissism, especially when Jen started sharing home-schooling resources, such as the way he was always happy to have her do all the home schooling, the way she gave up a job she is clearly passionate and knowledgeable about, the way he will ‘big her up’ or love bomb her but then share stories about how the trolls are mean about how she looks.
7. On the 8th Jan they posted a story talking about all the fun dates they went on when they first met and then posted on 13th Feb how they didn’t get a ‘honeymoon period with no time to wine or dine and date footloose and fancy free’ So which version of their reality was it then?
8. Isla and Ted were given cushions with Jen (blowing a kiss), Al, Isla and Ted on so that Isla’s could take this back home to her mums for when they are apart, which would be nice if it wasn’t meant as a dig at Isla’s mum AND if Isla was allowed to contact her daughter or share her belongings between houses. Al tried to defend this in comments by claiming Isla had a photo of her mum at his house which has never been seen or claimed before.
9. Lots of sly dig at Isla’s mum such as Al the cheat not speaking the Isla on his Birthday, how Isla doesn’t use biological word for body parts, how family members are trolls, how the co-parenting is so much better with Louis' Dad etc etc etc.
10. Both still visit tattle for content but rather than screen shot the text they just retype it out to remove our reference to Al's behaviour.
11. Al shared a story of 7th February about how a group of six people continue to troll them and that he has employed a private investigator to obtain information on these people and that he knows their IP address (this lie that influencers spread explained here) and locations (which he shared) and stated these people are all known to them. The hilarious thing is most of us here don’t even live near them but they are that paranoid they believe we are. Also, despite his claims, no one here mentions Jen losing her babies which we all agree is terribly sad. Al even shared a part of his PIs ‘client report’ as 'proof'
12. Jen offered lots of support to parents home-schooling and we could all see she still has a passion for education and we gave her lots of positive comments. We did question why she left a profession she is clearly good at and passionate about. Al posted a story about how the trolls focus on Jen’s looks and how old she looks (we don’t really) then on 12th Feb Jen posted a story of a picture of her and Isla in which she claimed Isla said ‘Mum, my mummy said you need to put your chin in a bit more’ Again another dig at Hannah
15. On the 15th Feb Al posted a story saying they had had couples counselling. Al also stated that he was ‘navigating co-parenting through a surprised an unplanned pregnancy’ yet on 24th Feb in the epic two part grid post said how awful it would be for his kids to read things online but is happy to post these things himself. Jen also said Al had individual counselling to help with his ‘past issues’.
16. On the Maker of Boys, Jen said she felt like a failure and had mega guilt regarding Ted not have a sibling to play with and how Ted struggles with transitions within the house with Louis and Ted coming and going. Maybe the wonderful blended family isn't so happy and blended after all.......
17. Another sly dig at Hannah by Jen storying that she has a great co-parenting relationship wit Louis’ dad and how they put Louis at the heart of everything, therefore implying Hannah doesn’t
18. They posted a story asking for information on camera's as Ted was having night terrors that sound the same as when their neighbours have sex. Odd way to describe it and why include any reference to the neighbours or their sexual activity at all? why not just say they wanted recommendations
19 So we ended thread 4 with an epic two grid post on how 6 people related to the family are trolling them and how these people are same ones are the IP addresses he shared. They also said they have solicitor, police and private investigator support but have decided to not pursue to protect his family. In comments he said that he wonders what their employers and church would think if they knew. He was called out by @Mum0fboys about photos of the kids in the bath but then retaliated by reporting a photo on her profile of her kids (Childish) Lots of his follower jumped up in support of him and jumped on anyone who challenges him. There was one other follower who challenged him, and Al claimed that the follower knew Hannah. Al the cheat also claimed he ‘asked to leave’ long before he met Jen and that is why he was ‘subjected’ to Christian couple therapy to ‘try to fix him ‘(but he was happy to go to therapy with Jen??). In a post to a comment on he claims how it was unfair that Isla would have to read these things online as she now has a phone and is on social media. Al ended the comment by saying these ‘lies shouldn’t be written online for our children to read’ If I was Al the cheat, I would look closer to home first. Al also claimed that the 6 people had multiple fake accounts and even talk to themselves and answer their own posts....... Oh how we laughed (To ourselves obviously)
Just as a geneal reminder, this thread is about the way Al and Jen behave, we do not bring up the miscarriages or loss they have suffered. It is sad they lost those babies and we are not people to mock that. We won't give them any more reason to make out we are the bad guys.
Also when commenting please try and include a little message about their cheating antics. Eg.
- Jen (the woman who cheated with a married man) is out with Ted on his own again
- Al (who cheated on his pregnant wife) is such a childish man!
Its stops them being able to use us for sympathy content. And it boils their piss!
Here’s to thread #5!
I love that they fail to see how accessible their information is due to the constant oversharing. They really are quite stupid in that respect. It's been so easy to find people connected to them, Louis' father for example
