She is already in an awful madhouse and it keeps escalating. Ella should be removed.being removed from Alice if it means going into some awful facility is not better for her.
Because school and friends and boyfriends are really going to be who she cares about from 14 on anyway.
If you are enmeshed with a narc mother, then she will have to come first. Sad but true.
Also the DM comments are open but they are already deleting comments.