Nixlondon
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Honestly, it was probably because Bianca came on the scene and then they moved in really quickly. That changed the whole dynamic and it started to go downhill really fast from then. Before, there was no 'screen' for Alice and her malicious agenda was transparent. Once B was on the scene, it was all 'affair', 'betrayal', 'gaslighting', 'lies' etc etc. This then ramped up with Alice drip feeding 'He is going to stop seeing you, all he is interested in is Bianca' and then unfortunately, B got ill and the visitations were restricted. It all fed into Alice's playbook. That was the beginning of the end. Alice would have manipulated the children to hate Ioan and to isolate him with or without Bianca, but the 'Bianca affair' narrative made it quicker and easier for her to implement.I remember from a couple of years ago that Ella said something like “stop bringing Daddy into everything “. She also said words to the effect that “You take upon your dad”, presumably Alice’s constant whingeing about abandonment. She also asks her mother to “be a mother”. I think at this point Ella had a clearer idea of her mother’s mindset and her agenda. Why does Ella know about Alice’s estrangement from her dad? Because “victim“ Alice told her.
Two years down the line, ”home schooled” (isolated) child shows none of the former awareness of who her mother is. Two years of venom, vitriol, mindfuckery and anxiety have created this sad child who will do anything to please her mother, because Mom is all she thinks she has.........