Big E knows she doesn't want to see her father. The court won't listen to that so her only option (she thinks) is to make him not want to see her. To make him dislike her. But he will never dislike her, no matter how much she tries. She has Alice and Alice's father as an example though - her father disowned Alice because of her behaviour. Ioan disowned Alice because of her behaviour.
The lesson is ...Behave like Alice and people disown you. It's a plan....
tbh she doesnt think Alice was disowned because of bad behavior lol
I think she wants him to drop the girlfriend, drop the RO against Alice so that they talk again (she had a rant in january to this extent) and be a father that does everything what he is told (which he probably used to be or rather he always gave in to Alice). This is her applying pressure on it to get what she wants. Has done so all the time, but it's a new level. This is also why she is changing names and
tit: "Look, I am disowning you, last chance"
That account actually hashtagged #FreeIoan over a news article with pap shots and the grief focusses strongly on Bianca. So I think it goes into that direction. They specifically even mention them not going to France because of all this. She knows so long Ioan and Alice are in a bitter fight she and Elsie (and Alice) lose out on exciting times (which is true). They havent been on a real vacation for 4 years and missed plenty due to this divorce (France, NY, Atlanta etc)
This probably isnt stopping until Ioan gives in or Alice secures a sugar daddy.
you would think it's a no brainer to just "choose" the kids. But the behavior shown to get to it is too alarming to grant that wish. Sooner or later he finds himself in the same situation (minus girlfriend, like in the early stages). Aside that it's not possible. Alice and Ioan will never be on speaking terms again after everything she did.