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CookieMonsta
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It's the kind of cruel game a narc plays. She knows IG is desperate to see his kids. It sounds like he has a restraining order against her so he can't go to the house. So she offers him Big E, who has apparently been avoiding him for 8 months, on a platter, knowing full well he can't accept the offer, knowing it will break both his heart, and that Big E won't really grasp the technicalities of the law and just believe he doesn't want to see or help her when she needs him, thus adding to the parental alienation, and giving AE another sob story she can peddle online that IG is a selfish, callous dad who can't be bothered to help out his kid in her hour of need.Sorry can I just clarify everyone.. I don’t believe the post from Alice about him refusing to pick Ella up. I just said that it doesn’t make him look good (it doesn’t) and it must have been hard for Ella, and maybe it was hard for IG to turn her down.
I have flown the flag of IG using his lawyers and doing things “by the book” since I joined
ButterTart
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At this point, Alice is going to get seven inches of legal documents to pore through.
CookieMonsta
VIP Member
And a whole lot more that she is embellishing.
Even if he has $400k in the bank, why should he use it to pay for an adult nanny for AE, one who seemingly has been actively complicit in alienating his children from him? He's going to need that money going forward.
1982
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Do you know, I’m really pleased Bianca has stood up for herself. Alice is dangerous and those that believe everything they read and not know the full story will label Bianca as Alice portrays her. So good for her for taking a stand against such defamatory words from a twisted woman’s mouth!
TraceyJacks
Chatty Member
On yourself Bianca. Whether it ends up being a sensible move or not, at a certain point you have every right to stand up for yourself. People will treat you how you allow them to treat you.
Caitlyn130
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I picture it as Alice saying 'call daddy, maybe he can take you to school!' and Ella getting a bit excited and calling him, and Ioan can't go to the house to pick her up so he messages her back 'sorry Ella I can't'.
Alice knows full well he a) won't come and b) won't tell her why because he's not dragging the kids into it unlike her.
She's deliberately getting her kid upset so she gets a win. It's sickening, really. And I'm sure that's what's happened.
MissMissMissy
Chatty Member
Poverty? Give me a fucking break Alice Evans. You have NO idea.
Blurp
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Well, the Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry, a BMJ publication, would beg to differ, Lyssa, however 'official' you may be.
BigBonedBuzzard
VIP Member
Also, Alice has enough first communion money to give Gloria work for another year?
Do it, silly duffer!
Do it, silly duffer!
We said that the last time. It was frightening. Then the next day she was back to twitter acting like her daytime normal self. Just think, this is what Ioan has dealt with for years. Huge, drama-filled, drunken verbal attacks on Ioan by Alice that carry on for hours, and then the next morning she acts like it never happened. "Milk with your tea, Dear?" He must be suffering from PTSD.
KikiFromNy
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I do admire the way Alice can defeat spellchecker though.
PinkyWinky
VIP Member
I’m play catch up again 
but I swear if I see one more post throwing shade at a 12 year who is having to cope with a psycho-narc mother i will blow a gasket. Of course she resents Ioan, he left her to cope with all that alone, even if he was offering long distance support and even if he had all the best reasons in the world. Then he goes and makes a difficult situation 10x worse by getting a gf and sending her mum into crazed and drunken rages.
Gice yourselves a shake. She’s a kid ffs and she’s using whatever coping strategies she has to cope with an unbalanced, chaotic and narcissistic mother. Telling AE that she wants to visit her dad probably isn’t going to help the situation for anyone in the house is it.
but I swear if I see one more post throwing shade at a 12 year who is having to cope with a psycho-narc mother i will blow a gasket. Of course she resents Ioan, he left her to cope with all that alone, even if he was offering long distance support and even if he had all the best reasons in the world. Then he goes and makes a difficult situation 10x worse by getting a gf and sending her mum into crazed and drunken rages.Gice yourselves a shake. She’s a kid ffs and she’s using whatever coping strategies she has to cope with an unbalanced, chaotic and narcissistic mother. Telling AE that she wants to visit her dad probably isn’t going to help the situation for anyone in the house is it.
Madge Harvey
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I don’t believe he is doing that to be nasty - he has obviously been advised by his lawyers to stay away from the house.
EDIT:If there is a restraining order this makes sense, legally he wouldn’t be able to go near the house. Legally from her point of view I mean.
CailinAlainn
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Nasty, nasty woman.
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Kindness is Free
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What do you mean she's a nightmare? She's a fucking delight! Never deliberately upsets anyone, and always apologies if she accidentally does. She's warm, fun, kind, generous and would NEVER make nasty comments or threats. I know this is true because Alice told me and she never lies. Well, unless you deserve it...
