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Oh no, much worse.
In California generally Spousal Support lasts half of the time you were married (so if you were 8 years married you will get Spousal Support for 4 years, etc.), unless you were married for more than 10 years, then you have to pay spousal support forever, unless the income of your ex spouse changes so much that she could afford her life standard herself or if she remarries. And yes, house would be split 50/50. Generally everything would be split. Child support would be indeed paid until the children is 18, no matter what happens (the rate can obviously change, depending on how much both parents earn, that applies to spousal support too, in theory it can even flip if suddenly the one that earned less earns more now etc.)
There are many people who when they plan to get divorced from their spouse, formally spend a couple of months in California, so that they can file there. that's how beneficial it is for the income weaker party.
Obviously here this will be different (except of the child support) because a prenup does seem to exist, although I suspect that she could be succesful if she would take this to court. AFAIK the smallest procedure error when making the prenup leads already for it to be torn apart in court. And if one or both were earning significantly more back then (likely?) this will be taken into account too. If I was her I would at the very least threaten with this in order to get a better settlement.
Well, he has the nice advantage of being a man.
All true, but Ioan was somebody that before her only had one serious girlfriend and a rising star, you cant really expect somebody like him to propose asap. Neither dropping him and just start all over again for a third time. I personally think she just waited long enough. It's also pretty common in Hollywood for a woman to not get kids early as the roles tend to dry out once you reach a certain age.
I am LATE returning to this message board and need to catch the hell up, but from what I’m seeing, she has slowed down on attacking us. Am I correct? (I blocked her IG from my profile, I truly have no idea what she’s up to at this moment—might use my other account.)
) But regardless of that, I’m in a place right now where I’m investing so much of my faith in his (overall…OVERALL…) innocence. I can’t describe it well. It’s like the more I learn about him, the more sympathy I wish to extend. In the beginning I tried holding space for the possibility that he was indeed as repulsive as AE made him sound—at least to some extent. Now, though, I think that his potential shortcomings can’t hold a damn 
to the massive disrespect and inappropriateness of AE’s behavior. I really, truly hope he is taking care of himself even more now than he had been earlier (he mentioned in an interview that he sees a therapist, stopped drinking, has gotten into yoga, reads mindfulness books, etc...all EXCELLENT habits). I just don’t want him to suffer during this chaos, is what I’m saying. I’m sure y’all would agree.
Y’all need to cool it—that or we need to put a warning label on this thread for people reading this in public scenarios, hahaha.
