Since when has nAlice had rheumatoid arthritis? (Post-operation paranoia - I've just had surgery on my lower spine and a, NOT recovering well, hence being so silent of late - I'm sure I mentioned I've been recently diagnosed with arthritis. Is nAlice tattle-shopping for new imaginary maladies that others actually experience?)
The repetitive mention of single parenthood is so thinly disguised as a dig at IG that it is below contempt. nAlice could have shared the Covid burden quite easily, had she not been alientating the father of her daughters. She is not a single parent. She is a woman who has deliberately sabotaged her children's relationship for revenge.
On the whole, I support women. I don't join in this site's certainty that Amber Heard is a she-demon based on Johnny Depp's one sided and inflammatory testimony. I support Meghan Markle due to the relentlessly negative, psychologically damaging and racist press smear that has been revealed in Tina Brown's latest book (one that is still highly favourable to the Royal Family). I think that so much of the world has been conditioned to see the male perspective alone. But when it comes to nAlice, I get the chills. Her utter cruelty, narcissistic instability and rage make her a woman I am surprised that anyone can support. I presume that the recently-recovered cancer survivor is Gloria: what a gift to give an ill 'friend', a child with Covid. (Gloria needs care and rest, rather than babysitting duties.) I don't like to say that people are beyond redemption, but nAlice is. She is a narcissist, a grievance collector, and a liar. Heaven help her: no-one else shall.
What a clever and inventive lot you areI might out myself with this one but
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Bless you, @JW. I've had a bad back for 20+ years - exacerbated when my narc ex jumped up and down on it (at 17 stone, the effect was quite drastic, as you can imagine) - and other interventions have been tried. None has been successful before, so I've been living on dihydrocodeine and pilates; I work out six days a week,if the ME/CFS allows. The arthritis is a bit of a shock, TBH. I went to the GP in a last ditch attempt to see if there were anything substantially wrong that could be fixed, rather than the endless fatigue and malaise of ME. I don't want to be permanently ill and tired; it's desperately dull. My GP did a load of blood tests and discovered the arthritis quite by accident. But it makes the constant pain in hands/wrists make sense. He hasn't discussed meds yet: I'm pretty loath to go on steriods, so will have to speak to him re: other ways of managing it.
Am dosed up to the eyeballs right now as my back is excruciating. But hope I'll be a lot better in a week and can just forget about my body: how lovely that would be!
Thank you so much for your good wishes. You're such a fount of support and kindness. Really lovely. xx
Ugh. Dangerous scumbag. Glad you are free of him.You're so kind - too kind,
Yes, my narc ex was unbelievably cruel: and what was the worst thing for me, during that whole incident, is that a) his torture went on for forty minutes, during which he literally threw me across the room and cracked my head and b) his child by another woman was playing with her teddies in the next room, and afterwards, when I was covered in bruises, sore spots all over my head where he'd yanked out my hair, he said cheerily: 'Don't worry, XXX. Daddy and XXX were only playing.'
I never wanted violence to become normalised for her. I loved that little girl. And I grew up in extremely violent circumstances: my father is a violent alcoholic and covert narcissist, so I was traumatised and beaten for years. (No clues for guessing why I ended up with narcissists for years: you go towards what you know, I suppose.)
What was almost worse, apart from the endless kicking/punching/choking (he knew I hated having my throat touched, so of course went for it) was the mental cruelty. I was accepted for a PhD in Philosophy in ten minutes; he rubbished my achievement and insisted I became a secretary. I was awaiting cancer test results; he sexted with another woman, while sitting beside me and pretending to look after me. I could never count on him being nice, or kind: he'd pull the rug from under me the next day, so that I'd never be used to kindness. When I didn't have cancer after all, he was disappointed; he actually wanted me to sicken and die, so that he could be the caring and bereaved spouse. The constant mental torture as well - "you're stupid" (when I had got a much better degree than he from Oxbridge); 'you're fat' (when he knew I was anorexic); "you're mentally ill" (when I was distressed about the fact he was blackmailing someone in order to trade insider secrets); that was almost worse than the violence. Violence eventually comes to an end - or death. Still, some kind of resolution.
That's why Alice disturbs me so much. Her 113 pages of vitriol, violence, manipulation and cruelty were severely triggering. Her endless attention-seeking, the lies, vanity, character assassination, unkindness, threats, mental torture, emotional blackmail - did I mention the lies, the endless lies? - are my ex narc incarnate. That is why, in this case, I am definitely not on the side of the woman. That is why I'm looking forward to June, when I hope she will be silenced permanently.
I fear for her children. They're mere supply for her vanity and hubris. They're sacrificed on the altar of her narcissistic arrogance.
It breaks my heart.
B n B maybe?Looks a bit homely maybe? Notice she is sitting on a double bed. If this is the Gruff senior residence AE would recognise it don't you think?
looks too homely to be a B&B there's a laundry basket in the corner.B n B maybe?
I guess Alice just ignores the fact she could have help if she wasn't holding the kids hostage from their father. Stupid woman.She lets a kid with symptoms stay with someone else? uhhhhhhhh
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Exactly, Alice’s whining about being a “single mother with no one to help” is a slap in the face to all the REAL single Mothers in the world. Alice doesn't get off her fat keester to go to a job, doesn't have to worry about paying bills, or a place to live, at least for now. She could also have someone to share childcare with, the children's father, who is more than ready to help. When the divorce is finally a done deal she may finally get a very big wakeup call, (I hope).I remember being a single mum, with so called "alimony" or spousal support, trying to go through further education as well as being in part time work.
I also remember being devastatingly heartbroken because I only had about £50 maximum I could afford spend for my children for Christmas, because I was at that time I didn't qualify for housing support or even educational grants for travel or maintainance. I was was on the breadline - devastated. Family obviously helped so my children didn't go without. But it didn't negate the feelings of guilt.
I seriously doubt that AE is in the position of juggling paying utilities and having to decide to buy one Barbie each for her daughter's at Christmas.
I don't think she will ever be in such a position.
She certainly is the ultimate POS. If anyone is a Turd, it’s her.Ok, one thing I don't understand - why is she even sending Elsie away? I know a few families where all but one had covid and nobody did this.
And Elsie has been exposed to the virus before Alice and Ella showed symptoms and of course now that they are caughing. Sending her away does duck all for her.
Also, has anyone noticed how when Ioan is "mean" to Gloria, Glo has cancer, but when Alice is sending her a child with covid, she is atm clear? Learn to be a better liar, Alice you absolute pos.
I called this when she did that! I said it would turn into a positive then long covid. The scene was set and played put exactly how I, and many others here said it would.She set this up about a month ago with the post about the negative covid tests. I smell shite…
It's Rheumatoid Arthritis.I'm truly sorry for what that lump of spite did to you.
Is it RA or osteoarthritis? I have OA in my hands, wrists, elbows, feet and knees. Even after several years, I haven't needed steroids for my joints (though my asthma is different). I take paracetamol on prescription for inflammation and pain, and Naproxin at night. I also take a turmeric and black pepper supplement daily (which two friends swear by, from Home Bargains) which helps. The rheumatology consultant told me that around 50% of people are helped by glucosamine. I do have a rather smart walking stick for bad days as well as a wardrobe of neoprene joint supports, and compression gloves for typing. The GP was rather confused when I burst out laughing when he read out the report of the last set of x-rays, until I reminded him that I would hope that my right big toe was "almost fused" at the very least, given that's the joint that has had a surgical fusion.
Best of luck
For me the most tragic thing is that … the only thing she has going on in her life is fckin covid .. againI called this when she did that! I said it would turn into a positive then long covid. The scene was set and played put exactly how I, and many others here said it would.
'Smartest person in the room' is just too easy to read.
I did in the end - well, rather they came to us, because I fought back. They did the square root of Sweet FA. No, in the end he dumped me - THANK GOD - for someone he'd been setting up as my replacement. I'm fervently glad that he did so, or I might not be alive now.Ugh. Dangerous scumbag. Glad you are free of him.
You don't have to answer this and I'm not judging but did you go to the police or was it safer not to?
she posts depressing negative stuff all the time.For me the most tragic thing is that … the only thing she has going on in her life is fckin covid .. again
I wouldn’t be surprised if she posts positive tests for scurvy and flamin rickets next !! No wonder they’re all ill stuck in that disaster zone
I’d have some sort of respect for her if she posted
‘ just been on a mile walk’ or ‘just cleared our one room of doll parts .. bring it on’
But no she posts depressing negative stuff all the time and I’m a believer in the energy you put out into the universe comes back at you ! She won’t be able to stop a pig in alley soon if she doesn’t get out in the fresh air and daylight and start building her immune system !
She just loves talking about herself to whoever about whatever her desperation astounds me always … some people like to live with that vibe … I personally don’t I’m fiercely private… but when there’s kids there it’s an abhorrent way to act !
Again she will never ever change because she thinks she’s ace![]()
Disclaimer- I’m not knocking covid I’m calling out her BS
HAVE A FABULOUS SUNDAY![]()
Twatus maximus. She is so manipulative. Vile. That is the most eloquent I can be before I've had caffeine I'm afraid.She just can’t help herself can she. even with a TRO. twit
At least your sentences made sense … ‘but you’d think , know? ‘ stupid bintTwatus maximus. She is so manipulative. Vile. That is the most eloquent I can be before I've had caffeine I'm afraid.
I don’t get the impression she cooks at all. Surely we’d have seen some evidence by now if that were the case. I think it’s takeaway every night Chez Alice.Scrambled egg and toast is a good nutritious food and quicker than ordering a takeaway.
The fact is she likes bemoaning the fact that she's shouldering the whole child care package. It does not make you a Saint Alice, everyone knows your just a martyr by your own hands!