nothing wrong with being a stay at home dad, but Alice was and still is a nobody. She wasn't getting hired for anything pay worthy and when she was being hired she was so crap they never asked her to come back. Ioan was the money maker, as evidenced by his financials so what exactly are they harping on about?
As for the whole college funds, yeah I don't think so. Alice would have spent it all on expired makeup and baby doll heads, and as if she will leave her special little mini me go to college.