I suspect that it’s the narc part of her that won’t ever acknowledge there’s a problem - because that’s how narcs are. They’re always 100% right, never wrong, cannot be criticised or even questioned, and react angrily if anyone dares to. If it were just BPD she had, maybe it would be different.But people are always telling Alice there’s a problem. See her husband, kids, former friends, randoms on twitter, Super Nanny, etc etc.
She’s just a horrendous narc Pearls, IMO, but bless your compassion and empathy.
Me too!Shit I read that as torturing. I am so sorry. I am not wearing my glasses because one side fell out so I am really sorry if I read stuff wrong.
Um, why would Ioan's lawyer be reviewing what Alice has bought on Ebay? This is where we may be getting over invested. Anne doesn't care, neither does Ioan. She has a lump sum she can use as she likes. It is up to her to ensure she provides a secure home for her girls and feeds and supports them within that lump sum. If she CANT support them within her means, that becomes a custody issue.I think Ioan is very handsome. I don't really advocate for cosmetic surgery, or fillers, but that's just me.
Shouldn't we try to choose our battles when it comes to criticising Alice? Maybe focus on the worst shit and let ebay purchases, dirty feet, and the odd takeaway slide. There is more than enough evidence of PA and poor parenting without needing to criticise Alice for what she buys on eBay. Ioan is not going to want his lawyer (child or financials) wasting the hourly rate on this kind of stuff. No parent is going to lose custody because they buy their child second hand jeans or trainers.
I can't believe he has made it this far, most newbies give up after day 2Alun is currently 98 out of 99 still in the race, about a third who started are still in. Shows you how tough it is.
We've had this situation before. Same shit, different day.Even takes advantage of a death, to make the situation all about Alice.
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Would require leaving the house! The SockNess Monster would neverWait! What? - she paid $3 for the jeans and then spent $6,40 having them shipped from Florida!
Charity shop Alice! Charity shop!
That's a statement often used apparently in parental alienation, oddly enough Ella has accused Ioan of spending all the money on lawyer's and Bianca.No, Alice's narrative is "WE ARE NOW POOR BECAUSE OF YOUR FATHER - WE CANNOT AFFORD NEW CLOTHES DESPITE WHAT MY FINANCIAL STATEMENT SAID ( was it $500 for clothes?
According to Alice she's about 5ft 10/11 perhaps the jeans are cropped.I don't know big E's height but I'm 5'6" and the inseams of my pants are 27". Perhaps she's long waisted.
There was one guy who went to the media saying he was a narc (tried to Google him and can't find anything and I can't remember his name) but then he tried to make a career out of it, doing interviews and claiming to help people recognise narc traits. He seemed to take a lot of pride in being a narc and saw it as him being different, special, unique, superior, etc...I suspect that it’s the narc part of her that won’t ever acknowledge there’s a problem - because that’s how narcs are. They’re always 100% right, never wrong, cannot be criticised or even questioned, and react angrily if anyone dares to. If it were just BPD she had, maybe it would be different.
It occurs to me that, although there is still a bit of a stigma around BPD, you do come across people who acknowledge that they have it and are working in it. But you never see someone admit they’re a narc. Not that I’ve seen, anyway.
It's only a problem when she buys stained, dirty looking clothes.I don’t think it’s a problem to buy second hand clothes. Better for the purse and the planet, less wastage and all that. I’m selling on eBay atm and also waiting for a delivery.
been watching the dragon tracker on and off. Alun is amazing and the fact he’s doing all this for Bianca and MS is incredible. What a legend.
I actually think it's good that Ella is getting used to the real world of 'make do and mend' given how spoilt she used to be. No more $1,000 pop concert tickets or $50,000 schools I hope. I have never slagged off AE for the ebay purchases per se and use ebay myself although like anything online shopping can be another addiction and we know AE has an addictive personality.Shouldn't we try to choose our battles when it comes to criticising Alice? Maybe focus on the worst shit and let ebay purchases, dirty feet, and the odd takeaway slide. There is more than enough evidence of PA and poor parenting without needing to criticise Alice for what she buys on eBay. Ioan is not going to want his lawyer (child or financials) wasting the hourly rate on this kind of stuff. No parent is going to lose custody because they buy their child second hand jeans or trainers.
Would that be listed in her income & expense declaration? Because it's not listed on there. Or did I miss it?
@Weathergirl, sorry just realised this may seem I'm arguing against you - not at all, was agreeing with your view Alices's clothes purchases were irrelevant and we should not even be highlighting them (unless there is $3k ballgown purchase)Um, why would Ioan's lawyer be reviewing what Alice has bought on Ebay? This is where we may be getting over invested. Anne doesn't care, neither does Ioan. She has a lump sum she can use as she likes. It is up to her to ensure she provides a secure home for her girls and feeds and supports them within that lump sum. If she CANT support them within her means, that becomes a custody issue.
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