The difference in these two women. One who genuinely has a serious life affecting illness, had a difficult and abusive marriage and deals with the cards that life has given her with grace, dignity, positivity, an care for others. The other who was given the gifts of beauty, intelligence, charisma, and a gorgeous, loving, kind, generous husband, who is a wonderful and engaged father to their beautiful daughters. She deals with those cards by abusing all those close to her, and driving them away with her selfishness, hersheer nastiness. Then pissing her beauty away with drink, substance abuse, until her inner evil is reflected in looks. Faking all sorts of illnesses just so that she can malinger in bed drinking and abusing on social media. One is taking life by the horns and making the most of it, the other is a lazy entitled mare who believes that the world owes her everything.
I'm glad that eventually Ioan saw through one, and is in a deeply loving and supportive relationship with the other.