barre19
Chatty Member
But she stays home to take care of THE BABIES!Why has she always felt entitled to so much when she contributes NOTHING?
People like her (and I use the word “people” loosely because sometimes she just makes me fucking embarrassed to also be a human like her) give genuine stay-at-home parents a bad name. From what I can see, she does less than the absolute bare minimum, orders takeout, rarely cooks for/with them, would rather see them glued to a screen all day than engage with them in a meaningful way.
The time I spent as a full time stay-at-home parent was the hardest job I’ve ever had. You’re on call 24/7, responsible for project-managing and administrating every single aspect of a small person’s life and development. Keep them entertained, educated and stimulated. Plan, prepare and cook meals. Keep on top of who needs new clothes/shoes and when, sort out what to do with the outgrown stuff. Arrange healthcare, get to appointments, research and advocate for their health. Be on the ball with an endless stream of school admin, who needs to take what and when, sign up for clubs, get the right equipment. Juggle the logistics of different needs at the same time when someone needs to be out the house and someone else needs to nap. Encourage their emotional development, listen to their worries, validate them, guide them, be there to help them pick themselves up from their stumbles.
You have to wear a hundred different hats all at once, and yes it’s rewarding but it’s also relentless and exhausting and tedious and lonely sometimes. But you do the work because you love them beyond words. And the thing about all of that is, you don’t get to come first in any of it.
What the fuck does she do of all that? She festers in bed all day, plucking ailments out of thin air to shirk her responsibilities, arguing on the internet with anyone who dares to challenge her. Claims all these illnesses with little evidence of actual malaise. Call herself a full time parent with little evidence of any actual, meaningful interaction with her kids or their lives. It’s beyond insulting to people who are genuinely in those positions. She hasn’t got an ounce of dignity or humility in her stupid horse-blanketed, booze-addled, poison-filled bitter little body.
Waah, I went off on one. She just makes me so fucking aaaaannnnggggrrryyyyy!
WE DON’T DESERVE YOU