Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #111 Hey Alice, get a job and go fund yourself!

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How come none of her supporters called out her lies about Ioan getting rid of Gloria & how upset the girls were, etc then it turns out she's still working there? Oh right, that's like the excuse given for her ABUSE - she was just upset & it was just a few angry texts.
Meanwhile the TRO holds 113 pages of evidence. Some people don't want to know the truth.
Hey little lady … I’ll just leave this here 😆😂
 

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I've caught up now and taking everyone's fantastic points of view in to consideration, i've come to the conclusion that Alice is still a bleep... thanks
 
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I just want to say I noticed that and thought it too. I don't have kids and I loved my husband and my grief at his passing was debilitating.
But he was not 'the centre of my orbit', we orbited together in a much bigger world. His friends still look out for me, my friends became his friends and they still grieve his loss.
You are setting yourself up for a disaster if you have "a man at the centre of your orbit" and that's an incredibly immature and/or olde worlde attitude.
@SusanC thank you for these words, it has made me realise that I put my ex (very recent split, he had narc tendencies & was abusive) before myself, I of course still had/have my friends and family, but I put his needs and the relationship before myself, probably one of the reasons I'm suffering so much atm. So thank you for giving me a good reminder ❤💪
 
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How come none of her supporters called out her lies about Ioan getting rid of Gloria & how upset the girls were, etc then it turns out she's still working there? Oh right, that's like the excuse given for her ABUSE - she was just upset & it was just a few angry texts.
Meanwhile the TRO holds 113 pages of evidence. Some people don't want to know the truth.
The truth is that he never got rid of Gloria he just told Alice he was no longer paying her wage and that would fall to Alice if she wanted to keep her. The same way he told Ella he could no longer cover her school fees, we have no way of gauging the damage Alice has done to Ioan's reputation in the long run and what it's cost him!
 
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it's 3%+0.30$

so basically someone who donates $5 actually donates $4.55, and someone who donates €1k donates actually $969.70
Thanks for that info. I was given the wrong info then. Their website says there is a transaction 3% fee and a 7.9% processing fee. So besides the 3% you mention there is also a 7.9 processing fee?
But still nowhere near the $25 000 she hoped for. Now if she had not made an ass of herself and after 18 months just put this request out, I bet a whole lot more would've donated, because her story would have been believable. But for 18 months she tried to put Ioan on full blast and humiliate him. That came back to bite her in the butt. Hoisted by her own petard.
 
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I am happy to answer any questions from someone who wants to know why women don’t always lose their minds and go crazy for 2 years during divorce. Every days a school day

I know the default response seems to be ITS ALL ABOUT THE MEN but duck my ex, I don’t need to roar at him to get what I want from my own life (FYI, virtually no child support). I’m also ok if people think I am ‘weak’ for not ‘fighting him tooth and nail to the death for the sake of not rolling over’ or whatever the mad narrative is meant to be, I literally am sitting here 15 years later saying I am fine, I have no regrets, my life is good. Surely that’s all anyone would want for Alice too? Why wouldn’t we want that?
Exactly this👏👏👏👏
 
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Ooooh things are heating up on here 👀
mAlice supporters in da house, please do yourselves a favour and take your blinkers off and take the time to read the 113 pages pertaining to the RO. Also age has got duck all to do with it! So you can take that out of the equation!

I said what i said 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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Divorce takes people straight on an airplane to Planet Crazy. There’s nothing positive about the experience of being cheated on then divorced. It is a gut punch. The woman rarely emerges from this situation happy and healthy and financially comfortable.
No one voluntarily wants to board that flight, and take on that flight. Well, no one except the lawyers.



Her anger is her honesty. People are uncomfortable with other people emoting negative reactions. Don’t cry, calm down, hold your tongue, wait and see.
We don’t wish Alice harm, it’s in everyone’s best interest that she has a happy and productive life, especially her own. Many people here, and we know she visits, have given good practical and sympathetic advice on things she could do. People in other forums have done the same. Unfortunately if it doesn’t fit her pity, victim narrative she shoots them down in flames because she would rather rant, rage and abuse than get her tit together. Ioan leaving her wasn’t a surprise for her, he’d told her he was unhappy, she chose not to address his concerns and called him a pussy. The TRO documents freely available show just what she did, and continues to do. These aren’t the actions of a heartbroken loving wife, they are the actions of a selfish narcissist who has lost control of her meal ticket and lazy, entitled life. Alice is throwing a huge tantrum because Ioan actually dared leave her. Ioan would have left whether Bianca was on the scene or not. He didn’t want to be with Alice end of. He left her not his children, who he’s been fighting to see for over a year, it is Alice who is thwarting that. This is nothing to do with love, just control
 
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It has nothing to do with anything other than the humiliation of the stereotypical being “traded in” for a younger woman.
She wasn’t traded in for a younger model. He left her because she’s an abusive narcissist that continually overstepped his boundaries. She’s toxic! He no longer loved her - told her he’d rather be dead than live with her anymore!

The fact that he met & fell in love with another woman almost a year after he told Alice he didn’t love her anymore, was a well deserved bonus imo. It wasn’t “stereotypical” behaviour at all!
 
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I wonder what mAlice's collage of her fav people looks like now?

She will have had to cover up IG's face with pics of her ebay purchases now. And add in her fav bro and SIL. It's strange how she forgot to put them in the original collage. :unsure: 🤭
 
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I’m a supporter of Alice and I will tell you why. This woman was screwed over. Her husband in his 50’s went for the newer younger model. He betrayed her. He thought she would roll over, be quiet and take whatever he was willing to hand her. She didn’t roll over, she roared. Ask yourself this:, any of you been cheated on, or watched someone else try to recover from a gut punch like that? No mere mortal could do that gracefully. Men want us silent. Alice ain’t silent, she doesn’t do silence, and more power to her.
Tell us your an FM without telling us you’re an FM!! 🤣 This mere mortal could do that gracefully, as could 99.9999% of the dignified posters on this forum.
 
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You’re missing out quite large parts of the one sided story and also romantisising a lot to excuse hideous behaviour. We’ve all had our hearts broken, we don’t act like 3 year olds about it and destroy family relationships over it. How does that even help anything? Just to feel like you’re in the right? All you end up is like “Miss Havisham” going mad in the attic on your own. I have sympathy for people with heartbreak and it needs to be felt and acknowledged but not used as a means to burn every bridge and destroy many other relationships. It’s cheesy but if you love someone and they want to go, you let them go. For everyone’s sake.
100%! and it’s not cheesy at all, love is not possession or entitlement, you can grieve your loved one no longer loving you but you always want them to be happy and you always let go, even during the relationship - you just dont hold on, they should stay on their own free will! And this is something Alice never understood
 
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I wonder what mAlice's collage of her fav people looks like now?

She will have had to cover up IG's face with pics of her ebay purchases now. And add in her fav bro and SIL. It's strange how she forgot to put them in the original collage. :unsure: 🤭
Pretty sure I’m on there 😂
 
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