Divorce takes people straight on an airplane to Planet Crazy. There’s nothing positive about the experience of being cheated on then divorced. It is a gut punch. The woman rarely emerges from this situation happy and healthy and financially comfortable.
No one voluntarily wants to board that flight, and take on that flight. Well, no one except the lawyers.
Her anger is her honesty. People are uncomfortable with other people emoting negative reactions. Don’t cry, calm down, hold your tongue, wait and see.
We don’t wish Alice harm, it’s in everyone’s best interest that she has a happy and productive life, especially her own. Many people here, and we know she visits, have given good practical and sympathetic advice on things she could do. People in other forums have done the same. Unfortunately if it doesn’t fit her pity, victim narrative she shoots them down in flames because she would rather rant, rage and abuse than get her
tit together. Ioan leaving her wasn’t a surprise for her, he’d told her he was unhappy, she chose not to address his concerns and called him a pussy. The TRO documents freely available show just what she did, and continues to do. These aren’t the actions of a heartbroken loving wife, they are the actions of a selfish narcissist who has lost control of her meal ticket and lazy, entitled life. Alice is throwing a huge tantrum because Ioan actually dared leave her. Ioan would have left whether Bianca was on the scene or not. He didn’t want to be with Alice end of. He left her not his children, who he’s been fighting to see for over a year, it is Alice who is thwarting that. This is nothing to do with love, just control