Something tells me she still believes that Ioan will be the one making all these payments and she will get 50% of the proceedings from the house sale. She's in for more than one rude awakening.She really has, hasn't she? She would have been warned this was coming and bills would have been put in her name by now. That's what happens. And she would have been given deadlines for accounts being closed and funds withdrawn. And credit cards would surely be cut off if there was chronic overspending.
What a mess she's created. Selling the house now is a must at this point. It has to be sold so she can pay her debts, legal fees can be paid by both parties, and she can find a place to live. The sooner the better.
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While we're at it, let's also add Nightwish's 'Over The Hills And Far Away'. For Yo.Also have a song that could be appropriate to add to the playlist - Nightwish’s ‘Master Passion Greed’.
There’s always a chance she might take the kids and make a run for it to the UK. It would take time to get her back here, kicking and screaming, but I can definitely see her doing this if she feels cornered.Im usually the one to have worst case scenarios flashing in my head about pretty much everything but this time round - not so much. I’ve been extremely concerned before and everything de escalated. I think those who say she is much more in control of her histrionics than appears to be are probably right. I suspect the 2nd might be yet again something rather mundane and papers submission etc. You are right of course, anything is possible with her but Im somehow feeling rather laid back at the moment. It might change of course
Maybe not uncommon where you are. Very uncommon here.they were married (the contract) in one country - and held the (one) wedding (ceremony) in another country
not uncommon
ETA: but am happy we each have viewpoints and experiences
BIB she's not restrained from the kids though. Only Ioan and Bianca.Agree. He has been more than patient and considerate. She is not just 'not backing down', she keeps escalating.
Best thing for him and his girls is to pull all the rugs out from under her.
If she has to worry about where she's going to sleep and what she's going to eat, that will adjust her focus (I hope).
Note the DVRO requires the restrained party to stay away from children's school too.
Happens all the time when couples have destination weddings.they were married (the contract) in one country - and held the (one) wedding (ceremony) in another country
not uncommon
ETA: but am happy we each have viewpoints and experiences
She can’t afford to buy a plane ticket. She’s totally underestimated Ioan. I still can’t believe some people believe he should fund her for life. Let’s face it, she’s spending the child support on herself.There’s always a chance she might take the kids and make a run for it to the UK. It would take time to get her back here, kicking and screaming, but I can definitely see her doing this if she feels cornered.
I’m going with IOL Ioan online but who knowsHave we answered what is a LOFT lady yet? No rush just waiting patiently over here…
She’s stuck in the 80s - last time she paid for anything herself!!So the bills totaling $30,000 have gone to her plus returned checks? The woman needs a job, Now!! Don’t you go to jail or something if you bounce a check and don’t write them a ‘good’ check? How many people still pay bills by check, it’s so much easier to be on auto pay.
Pool upkeep too. It all adds up when you are a big spenderIf Alice buys 18 items on ebay per month (and this is not her best month) she will buy a lot more elsewhere (she mentioned a much used amazon account for example) both online and in LA. Both for her and the kids (they take advantage of parents that want to be the "fun" parent by having a big wishlist). Then add UberEats, meal subscription, then perhaps add bigger stuff like phones, laptops, TVs that are often paid months later, Gloria, perhaps the last lawyer installment (she claims she used for this her savings, but she also claimed she used them for Gloria and now suddenly that was a lie)...I wouldnt be too surprised if 30k are her spendings.
She likely isnt touching her own savings and thinks abusing the joint accounts will cost her nothing. She is in for a surprise
(I cant imagine btw that Ioan does anything funky here, his lawyers will have advised him)
for those who asked: LOFT (Ladies of the Forum) are the Ioan fans she had a war against. somehow she thinks we are all them LOL
Sounds to me that up till now she's been sending her bills to Ioan's lawyer's for him to pay and they have sent them back??
Damn. I hoped she was talking about our Lair Of Fabulous Turds.for those who asked: LOFT (Ladies of the Forum) are the Ioan fans she had a war against. somehow she thinks we are all them LOL
The pap shot of her parked up at the atm grinning springs to mind, I think she's been draining that joint account and thought Ioan would keep topping it up indefinitely. He's done this to move the divorce on, she's going to have to come back to the negotiation if she wants monies or go bust.If Alice buys 18 items on ebay per month (and this is not her best month) she will buy a lot more elsewhere (she mentioned a much used amazon account for example) both online and in LA. Both for her and the kids (they take advantage of parents that want to be the "fun" parent by having a big wishlist). Then add UberEats, meal subscription, then perhaps add bigger stuff like phones, laptops, TVs that are often paid months later, Gloria, perhaps the last lawyer installment (she claims she used for this her savings, but she also claimed she used them for Gloria and now suddenly that was a lie)...I wouldnt be too surprised if 30k are her spendings.
She likely isnt touching her own savings and thinks abusing the joint accounts will cost her nothing. She is in for a surprise
(I cant imagine btw that Ioan does anything funky here, his lawyers will have advised him)
This is a woman that simpy rejects downsizing and thinks she'll get her way with defaming him in public and abusive kids texts (lets not kid ourselves here)
for those who asked: LOFT (Ladies of the Forum) are the Ioan fans she had a war against. somehow she thinks we are all them LOL
yeah a B-list family can spend this amount per month quite easily even without a mortgage. Problem is just that they were C-listers and have a super expensive divorce, and no income is coming in (Alice refuses to work, Ioan takes a little break after working non-stop). It also explains why Alice perceives 300k pa as nothing. And it also explains how a house that was bought for a million is 16 years later still not paid up despite his earnings.Pool upkeep too. It all adds up when you are a big spender
You’re absolutely right about why he took gigs where he could get them. She is a spender and again tries to shame him by announcing he hasn’t paid her bills. Also respite from her. Frankly she’s fucking annoying and hard work.yeah a B-list family can spend this amount per month quite easily even without a mortgage. Problem is just that they were C-listers and have a super expensive divorce, and no income is coming in (Alice refuses to work, Ioan takes a little break after working non-stop). It also explains why Alice perceives 300k pa as nothing. And it also explains how a house that was bought for a million is 16 years later still not paid up despite his earnings.
I keep wondering if Ioan worked so often away (he certainly could have found work in the states but lower) in order to provide Alice the lifestyle she perceived to deserve. Pressure must be immense on top of the responsibility for the girls.
I wouldn’t be at all surprised if she did think that, the massive grifting scroat.Something tells me she still believes that Ioan will be the one making all these payments and she will get 50% of the proceedings from the house sale. She's in for more than one rude awakening.
While we're at it, let's also add Nightwish's 'Over The Hills And Far Away'. For Yo.
Alice's house is smaller than my house. We are middle class. Admittedly real estate is much cheaper here than in LA, but when people can her house a "mansion" I laugh. We live in the average, Australian, suburban house.Alice and Ioan did not seem to be wealthy, not by Hollywood terms. They were comfortable, much like many regular people are. Many normal everyday people are millionaires, they just don’t go around advertising it. Alice probably has far less money than most of us, she just spends far more than she actually has. She is not going to like being less off than working class people, she sees herself far above them. I can’t wait to find out what kind of house or condo she can find in her price range, maybe there’s a house near Gloria for rent, that would at least be convenient.
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