I thought it was Elsie crying all the time. She’s been crying fir three
Elsie, according to AE has been crying for three weeks over the reveal of BW. She said Ella was calm and so cool but just was sick of her dad and won’t speak to him anymore nor visit him. She supposedly got upset over the child evaluator and begged to come home but that thrills AE no end. Plus I think she put her up to it. And Ella is more like her mother.
Elsie and her Dad were best buds from the get go. She adores him and continued to visit him. And AE made the mean comment about Elsie’s nose, was jealous of their relationship, and leaned in on their zoom call to say Elsie’s grades were plummeting. Then tweeted that she possibly has adhd and was dyslexic. To Alice that’s less than perfect.
But that’s just my opinion and I love hearing every Tattlers opinions except the occasional thread derailer that slithers in.
It is lovely to get an opinion from someone who is aware of SG/GC!
Apologies, I'm not sure which of the Es is which age wise so I muddle up who is who.
I know there is Ella and Elsie but not sure which is eldest/youngest. Also (and this is bitchy but has to be said!) She's got an El-a an El-c, whatever happened to El-b?
The E she says refuses to go to IG's 'hovel' (probably a very nice flat) and is 'still crying ' after seeing the insta photo is the one I think is the SG.
For anyone not aware how SG/GC works (I think you do
@IHateHadargoyle 
) it can be a weird thing to process.
It isn't a case of having a favourite or pitting your children against each other, although that can be a symptom.
It is about a Narc knowing her children's weaknesses and using that to her advantage. The Narc will work on her children to mold them into what she needs them to be. It is a 24/7 task for the Narc and when AE says things like 'I'm parenting my children ' or 'I devote my life to my children ' what she really means is that she's working on them.
She will drip feed vitriol, sometimes love bombing, sometimes withholding love. All to make them the little foot soldiers she needs to feed her Narc supply.
The Narc mother doesn't see the children as a possession because you can lose a possession. She sees them as an extension of herself and therefore they must comply.
The SG is usually the eldest and usually a girl. The Narc mother uses the SG as literally a puppet of themselves. To an outsider it may look like the SG is adored and the mother will 'despair ' that this ungrateful child is going against her wishes despite all the love she's given the child.
Oh ffs, I've done another essay, sorry. But this is my lived experience and I'm passionate about getting the message out about Maternal Narcissistic Abuse!
Back for a catch up, worried about what awaits me this side of the horizon... Here be 
