My opinion on the daughters here. They are subject to abuse the same as Ioan was before he left, and look how difficult that was for him, and the toll it has taken on him. These are two children for goodness sake. One entering puberty which is difficult enough to navigate even in the best and most stable of homes. Ella doesn’t have the safety net of that even. She is taking on the role of care giver and confidante of her monster of a mother, and has been told things/lies that no child of her age should have to deal with. She is probably trying to look after her little sister at the same time as trying to look after herself. They know that if they develop a good relationship with their father, as seemed to be happening, the Abuser will kick off, threaten all sorts and terrify her children. What is Ella supposed to do? She is a child who should have been protected, loved, and shielded from most of this. As it is she has to cope the best she can, so is it surprising she acts up. I think it was Plinky who said that the child who is acting out the worst, is the one who needs love the most. I agree, and I’m sure that Ioan understands this. He knows the Abuser and how she works, the best.
None of what is going on should be laid at the eldest daughter’s door, it is all down to the Abuser. The Abuser is an evil twisted witch who will stop at nothing to destroy the lives of those babies, as that is what will hurt Ioan the most.
My heart breaks for those girls, Ella in particular. We don’t victim blame Ioan, so I think we should give Ella, and Elsie the same courtesy. They are much less able to withstand the Abuser than Ioan, and look what she has done to him.
That creature deserves nothing less than the cardboard box, shopping trolley, poverty and homelessness. That is my view and I hope that the universe is working out her comeuppance as I type this. It can’t come soon enough.
Rant over, for the time being at least. This latest tit has upset me more than anything else.