As she has broken a court order re therapy and visitation, will the court itself taken action against her?
Definitely not a remedy, I’m just trying to think of ways he can repair his relationship with bug E without alice interfering through the phone. I feel like if a judge ordered she doesnt contact them when they’re with Ioan, her way around this is to tell them’text me when you get there/call me if any problems’ she is vile and will stop at nothingCommunity service isn't a remedy; she's likely to get a fine. And a criminal record. Which will have a much harsher impact the next time she gets called up for violating the RO. Because I am certain there will be other occurrences.
Ioan would have to file a motion insisting the court enforce its order. She would be subject to civil or criminal penalties, up to and including jail, fines, having to pay his legal fees...As she has broken a court order re therapy and visitation, will the court itself taken action against her?
I said remedy in the context of a court remedy or action. The court already has said she can't interfere in therapy or custody. He would have to file a motion of contempt to get that enforced.Definitely not a remedy, I’m just trying to think of ways he can repair his relationship with bug E without alice interfering through the phone. I feel like if a judge ordered she doesnt contact them when they’re with Ioan, her way around this is to tell them’text me when you get there/call me if any problems’ she is vile and will stop at nothing
aw thanks! Nice to have a fellow survivor here. We’re good. Dealing with more abuse lately but I’m getting Better at handling the stress.Sending you solidarity and strength we have similiar stories. Well done for breaking free. Hope you and your kids are doing well
She‘s a child. Thats not what she’ll see. Her mom would be telling her that she was right all along and her dad doesn’t love her.That Ioan isn't a whipping boy? That abusive behaviour isn't ok even if that bleep encourages it?
As I said it's a hard one. I wouldn't blame him for retreating at this stage and many men would. It need not be forever but in the short term things will get even worse. They have yet to vacate the house which will be a saga in itself. Ioan might marry and have more kids which Alice will use to create more havoc. He's in a very difficult spot with no easy answers.
In answer to the question on the FAQ, can I appoint a PD before I appear in court the answer isI have one question: Marie says that the public defender informed her over the weekend of the charges. I obviously dont know how this works in Cali, but how can Alice have a public defender before she got in front of the judge, let alone without (supposedly) knowing that she has a court date? I always thought you get a public defender appointed at the arraignment if you qualify for it.
Now that we know that she has a male public defender I also start to agree that the woman in the car was possibly Ella
the wimp/super hero one has it pretty much won anyway
but a 10 days trial LMAO
it's a bit of a no-win tbhShe‘s a child. Thats not what she’ll see. Her mom would be telling her that she was right all along and her dad doesn’t love her.
I know she's a minor.She‘s a child. Thats not what she’ll see. Her mom would be telling her that she was right all along and her dad doesn’t love her.
Thank you and yes all good, was rough going for a while but things have settled slightlyI'm sorry for your loss. May he RIP. I don't want to pry but I remember a post you made on the other thread last year and I hope you're ok.
1 & 2 - she can be ordered to get work - does not mean she will get work.....she could interview and still not be offered any work (coz she will sabotage) also how many employers want to take on somewith with a DVRO?I love avocados...
1. A judge can order a seek-work order. There is nothing preventing her from looking for work - any work she is capable of doing. It doesn't have to be acting-related.
2. Doesn't matter that she hasn't worked - her circumstances have changed.
3. She can't claim sickness or disability without medical proof. She sure was walking briskly into and out of court the other day.
4. Doesn't matter in the eyes of the court.
5. He can have a nanny stay with the kids, just as they did when he lived with Alice.
She can potentially be seen as neglectful if for example she pulled Ella out of school and she has been "home schooled" and the court can be shown that it isn't working because Alice isn't providing oversight. His video transcripts show clear abuse and that's only two of the ones he probably has. I am betting he has plenty of evidence of neglect and potential abuse. Ant Antstead = UK law...
Ella is abused. She’s yet another victim of the witch.Sadly Ella is mimicking Alice.
1&2 = the court will not care about that1 & 2 - she can be ordered to get work - does not mean she will get work.....she could interview and still not be offered any work (coz she will sabotage) also how many employers want to take on somewith with a DVRO?
3 - totally agree and she does not have 'proof'
4 - agree
5 - no he can't - Alice was there with Gloria. If B takes on the role then yes, she can take that on
But as we have all seen and noted - the courts can mandate, but Alice will PA those girls they will keep walking away - and the courts cannot force unwilling children on a day to day basis
PS Ant Anstead - California divorceI love avocados...
1. A judge can order a seek-work order. There is nothing preventing her from looking for work - any work she is capable of doing. It doesn't have to be acting-related.
2. Doesn't matter that she hasn't worked - her circumstances have changed.
3. She can't claim sickness or disability without medical proof. She sure was walking briskly into and out of court the other day.
4. Doesn't matter in the eyes of the court.
5. He can have a nanny stay with the kids, just as they did when he lived with Alice.
She can potentially be seen as neglectful if for example she pulled Ella out of school and she has been "home schooled" and the court can be shown that it isn't working because Alice isn't providing oversight. His video transcripts show clear abuse and that's only two of the ones he probably has. I am betting he has plenty of evidence of neglect and potential abuse. Ant Antstead = UK law...
It’s an adult female with dark brown shoulder length hair, in a black v neck top. She moves her hair away from her face - it’s not a child.Now that we know that she has a male public defender I also start to agree that the woman in the car was possibly Ella
1+2 - if the judge imposes a seek work order, she would have to show proof of looking for work every week. Real proof. I would think that eventually if she runs out of money, she will take whatever she can find to have income. Other people do it every day so why should Alice be treated as a special case? Having the DVRO is her own fault and doesn't excuse her from actively seeking work. There are places that would hire her with it.1 & 2 - she can be ordered to get work - does not mean she will get work.....she could interview and still not be offered any work (coz she will sabotage) also how many employers want to take on somewith with a DVRO?
3 - totally agree and she does not have 'proof'
4 - agree
5 - no he can't - Alice was there with Gloria. If B takes on the role then yes, she can take that on
But as we have all seen and noted - the courts can mandate, but Alice will PA those girls they will keep walking away - and the courts cannot force unwilling children on a day to day basis