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Alice: "I took them to therapy because their father didnt want to"
Reality: "Alice insisted on driving the girls to the appointment,"
whar a professional victim
With Alice, every time on Twitter she makes a point of accusing Ioan of doing something/not doing something, in fact the opposite is true.
- "He didn't want to take them to therapy"
- "He cut off our phone and internet"
- "He doesn't want to see our girls"
- "He left us with no money"
- "He hates Ella"
- "He blindsided me when he left me"
I'm sure there's more I've missed off, this is just what I can remember off the top of my head.
Alice is manipulative, but she's also a
bleeping moron. She needs to express herself in writing (Twitter, abusive emails and texts to Ioan and his family), so she's left a rich paper trail of her abuse, lies and contradictions, as well as evidence that knows she's done wrong.
From the first Mail Online interview she gave about their split. BIB is mine:
He grabbed my computer and deleted my tweet. He was raging at me. Screaming at the top of his voice. 'How dare you?' His eyes were wide and white — it was terrifying. I looked back at him. I said 'give me the laptop back'. 'No!' he said. 'Not until you've calmed down and learned to control yourself.' Again, I said: 'It's my laptop. Please give it back.' He walked out of the room, with the laptop.
Something seemed to break inside of me. I ran up to him and grabbed the laptop out of his hands. 'It's my f***ing laptop,' I said. 'And it's my life.'
I went back onto Twitter and re-posted what I'd written, explaining that he had deleted it but that it wasn't a mistake. It was a great big bloody scream for help. Then the strangest thing happened. He stared me out, watching me retweet my cry for help. And then he picked up the phone, called his parents and began to cry. I had no idea what he was saying as he communicates in Welsh with his parents but, well, obviously, it was bad. A line had been crossed.
Why do you think that was "strange", you utter moron? Because your appalling and incomprehensible behaviour broke him.
The Daily Mail had picked the story up. I knew it wasn't entirely the right thing to do, but as people started texting and the word got round, all I could feel was a huge gush of relief.
So you even admit you knew it wasn't right, but the dopamine hit you got from the Twitter notifications from your internet friends made up for it.
The next day he lawyered up. Suddenly, I was on Zoom meetings with five or six legal eagles fearing I might lose custody of my children. The advice was clear. I had to keep quiet. Stop airing my laundry in public.
It might seem odd, but the more I was pushed, prodded, told to get in line, the more the lawyers told me not to talk, the more I felt like doing it.
Talking to Twitter helped me get perspective. Women from all over the world would message me to say they'd had similar experiences. Without this outlet, I might truly have lost my mind.
Here, a woman in her 50s admits she doesn't like being told what to do, even though what she was doing had legal ramifications. What a
bleeping hateful idiot. You're not 5 years old anymore. It really sounds like she could have oppositional defiant disorder (or maybe she's just a
bleep).
How wrong could I have been! When he came back home at the end of August 2020, something had changed. I was grinning like an idiot when his car pulled up from the airport, the tears of joy were rolling down my face.
He got out, picked up the girls then it was my turn. I ran up and threw my arms around him but he remained rigid. I kissed him, he kissed me back limply then moved away. I was stunned.
Here, Alice neglects to mention that she was recording this whole interaction, ready to put up on her Instagram. Totally normal behaviour to record your husband coming back from being away for weeks, without any warning, right?
I have also been criticised for telling my daughters about their father's lies, but what am I supposed to do? Continue his lies for him?
No you dipshit, you're meant to protect your girls and provide a stable environment for them. You're not meant to complain about your ex, use your daughters as confidantes/parentify them, terrify them, and manipulate them into hating their father.
Someone mentioned online that Ioan liked slim girls and I agreed. He had, after all, told me several times over the years that he couldn't abide fatties and that he would leave if I gained weight. 'I guess he was true to his word this time,' I tweeted.
But it's OK for you to call him "saggy vagina eyes" and insult him about his hair loss? You also threatened to leave him and get a new boyfriend, it's all there in the court documents.