I’m sorry but she’s the most patronizing narcissist and belittling person. The way she controls Spencer like a puppet, dressing him up in clothes way out of his comfort zone and making him model them is not ok. We all know that isn’t his personality and is definitely not his style of clothes he had in the haul. She’s trying to change him and wipe any of his personality away from him. The way she constantly says about him being a ‘big strong man’ is patronizing. She’s made him lose weight and look ill, change his hair, change his style, stop drinking alcohol even though he ‘doesn’t like the taste of alcohol’ is his reason for stopping drinking yet buys ‘non alcoholic gin’ where’s the sense in that.. it’s turned in to a very unhealthy relationship