I know we dont know the ins and outs of his past. Far from it. But in the video with her mum when they both say hes come so far / grown so much etc - that can come across as manipultive. My bf is the laddiest lad you can imagine and i would never tell him he needs to stop seeing his friends / stop going to the pub / cater to my every need to 'grow as a person'. Her mum basically says being a barber is having no drive, actually its a v respected job that you can have for a lifetime! Conversely youtube is highly competitive and short lived and leaves you with NO transferable skills.Definitely! I know he goes along with a lot of her rubbish but I don’t know if he’s just so stuck in a toxic relationship that he doesn’t know what to do. If she has isolated him from his friends and family maybe he feels like he has no one except her and her family. Small comments away from a camera every so often can drag someone down such as “they don’t care about you” etc can really do something to someone’s mental state. I hope that’s not the case but I really hope he’s happy because it’s all too common these days that men feel like they can’t speak up and feel isolated by a partner that they feel there’s no way out. Who knows I hope that’s not the case but he just seems so unhappy. maybe that’s why she has a lot of “panic attacks” “suicidal thoughts” etc as a way of emotional blackmail to keep him there. Maybe he thinks if she leaves she will do something to herself and I actually think he’s quite a caring person, raised by a decent family x