She pretends they were in their pj’s all day - to normalise them- whilst she found the time (with them) to bake a fiddly cake (she won’t share the recipe as too fiddly for us mere mortals) and decorate it with elderflowers, as per Pinterest, whilst she also found the time to dress up in a perfect white dress and snap pictures of perfect cake, perfect boys in perfect pj’s, watch perfect films, set up perfect film set up and projector in perfect children’s bedroom and take more perfect pictures of it all in the hope that everyone takes notice of all the perfectness, whilst pretending to be just like everyone else!! How exhausting trying to cover all of the market all of the time!