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y0ud0y0ub00 · Mar 10, 2022

slothsays said:
latest video about her evening routine with George.. casually just leaves him in the bath whilst she lays out his clothes in the bedroom

I didn’t see that! How irresponsible. I know he’s not a baby any more but he could still drown! She makes out she’s “mum goals” but she’s actually not a great mother. George goes to nursery 4 days a week for the whole day & she spends the time she has with him on instagram.

also, I was just watching her wedding prep video- sorry but those bouquet’s she’s made for her bridesmaids look so cheap! I get trying to do things on a budget but she’s so tight it’s unbelievable! She’s got the money, just spend it!

Lala22 · Mar 10, 2022

I know someone like this! Likes to go on about how much money they have and how well off they are and how much they save but go on the cheapest holidays, refuse to spend money on their house and eachother.

Misspurpleberry · Mar 10, 2022

And yet isn't she spending 25k on the wedding

y0ud0y0ub00 · Mar 10, 2022

I just think, yeah it may only be one day, but it’s her wedding day. She’s gone for a second hand dress (which she now has to sell as it doesn’t fit

), cheap shoes, ugly fake flowers… the list on! The shoes I can sort of understand as nobody sees them, but the flowers will be in photos etc. wouldn’t you want them to look nice?

Amyx1518 · Mar 11, 2022

I get that it’s probably awkward to know how to pose doing those Instagram stories but does she always have to look so smug?!

theaudacityonthat · Mar 13, 2022

Shan complaining about the costs of childcare like she’s not earning almost double her wage from social media

Lala22 · Mar 14, 2022

theaudacityonthat said:
Shan complaining about the costs of childcare like she’s not earning almost double her wage from social media

Honestly believe from the tone of her posts lately that she’s laying the groundwork to quit her job. Keeps banging on about costs/childcare/not being interested in a career any more. Which is fine but just own it! I imagine once the wedding and move is out the way this might become a reality?

Amyx1518 · Mar 14, 2022

Lala22 said:
Honestly believe from the tone of her posts lately that she’s laying the groundwork to quit her job. Keeps banging on about costs/childcare/not being interested in a career any more. Which is fine but just own it! I imagine once the wedding and move is out the way this might become a reality?

Yeah it seems that way doesn’t it.

slothsays · Mar 14, 2022

Lala22 said:
Honestly believe from the tone of her posts lately that she’s laying the groundwork to quit her job. Keeps banging on about costs/childcare/not being interested in a career any more. Which is fine but just own it! I imagine once the wedding and move is out the way this might become a reality?

I’d be worried to quit my job if I was a motherhood YouTuber who no longer wants to show my son. The wedding content will be gone too.

Lala22 · Mar 14, 2022

They all do this though don’t they these influencers. Have a tiny bit of success then go full time and it just becomes boring and falls apart.

Nosymum · Mar 14, 2022

slothsays said:
I’d be worried to quit my job if I was a motherhood YouTuber who no longer wants to show my son. The wedding content will be gone too.

Same it’s silly either you don’t show your son (totally understandable) or accept you can be a parent blogger it just doesn’t work! Really irritates me how she titles everything ‘realistic day in the life’ etc of course it’s bloody realistic it’s reality!

Lala22 · Mar 14, 2022

I’m interested to see how much of the wedding ash permits her to film. I think he (understandably) wants his privacy and she just sees everything as an opportunity for content. I do not believe for a second the ‘not showing George’ is down to her alone.

basilfaye · Mar 14, 2022

I watch and cringe at the fact she brags about how much she’s earns then in the next breath complains about having to spend money.

On childcare costs I used to live close to her and I don’t know any nursery’s that have so many extra fees and I also work in the childcare industry. If I’m honest I think a lot is fabricated and super fake.

Kit123 · Mar 14, 2022

basilfaye said:
I watch and cringe at the fact she brags about how much she’s earns then in the next breath complains about having to spend money.

On childcare costs I used to live close to her and I don’t know any nursery’s that have so many extra fees and I also work in the childcare industry. If I’m honest I think a lot is fabricated and super fake.

Does seem excessive. My nursery has more extra costs and everything is factored in to the fees. Also, why does she George breakfast? Does the nursery not provide it? Mine starts at half 7 and has it included.

basilfaye · Mar 15, 2022

Kit123 said:
Does seem excessive. My nursery has more extra costs and everything is factored in to the fees. Also, why does she George breakfast? Does the nursery not provide it? Mine starts at half 7 and has it included.

It makes no sense. I think she’s trying to fit into a market of solo low paid parent when in fact as a couple they both work and in good paid jobs to not to even come close. Whether that’s because of the lifestyle she grew up in or she wants people to feel sorry for her I don’t know.

Jc456 · Mar 15, 2022

My youngest is 8 and when she was in nursery they changed the fees so meals were on top, I think it was when they introduced the 30 hours free. It was only something like £2/3 for meals and then £45 for the day

slothsays · Mar 15, 2022

basilfaye said:
It makes no sense. I think she’s trying to fit into a market of solo low paid parent when in fact as a couple they both work and in good paid jobs to not to even come close. Whether that’s because of the lifestyle she grew up in or she wants people to feel sorry for her I don’t know.

To be fair to her she may just be annoyed that her childcare is double her mortgage which is a bitter pill to swallow regardless of income. Plus she based her last lot of childcare on the fact she had tenants but she’s moved back to that house hasn’t she so she’s lost that income stream I suppose

ivyandrose · Mar 16, 2022

I get the feeling she’s trying to relatable, but switches constantly on who she’s trying to relate to.

theaudacityonthat · Mar 16, 2022

Those bloody online subscription to magazine ads are doing my head in. Keep seeing Shan boast about how good they are in the ad but I’ve never seen her mention it any other time, except when she’s being paid ofc.

DownBelow21 · Mar 17, 2022

Can't believe she leaves G alone in the bath whilst she flutters about. Fair enough it's probably only minutes but he still shouldn't be left. Its so dangerous.

Also don't understand why she just doesn't set his pj's etc out before she puts him in the bath...??