HomewithShan #6 Still ignores her kids & asks ‘why does George scream at me?’, would take a poke in eye for free

[Here4daLOLZ]

She's just posted a reel about what she spent in May. So because they had to get a locksmith out and that was paid from the joint expenses, she then had to use HER OWN MONEY to cover groceries that would have normally come out of the joint budget. What the actual F?!?! I'm surprised she didn't take the locksmith money out of George's savings seeing as it was apparently "his fault" the locksmith had to be called out

Why are they not both coming from the joint expense pot? I missed the whole locksmith thing.
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Precisely my thoughts. She must have had some for G but maybe different kitchen cabinets? But either way, she only did this to get the money from the affiliate link. That's about it. She probably got better recommendations outside Amazon, but if she posts those she doesn't make a profit.

She's had that kitchen long enough to have put child locks back on for George though so your right, it's clearly to get a kickback from her affiliate like

 

[cosmicstar]

That does seem late. My youngest was late to walk (17 months) and talk (over 2) but she was rolling by 5 months

Same! My youngest was an early talker but did not walk until 17 months as well. But rolling was also around 4-5 months.
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If Halle isn't even rolling yet, it basically means she has very little trunk stability. That's something tummy time is really beneficial for. Shan claims she does tummy time but if Halle genuinely isn't reaching those developmental stages, it basically shows us she hasn't done enough or any actual tummy time.

My LG never crawled and went staight to cruising and walking. But then about 3 months after walking she decided she wanted to crawl crawl

That's kind of where I was going with it. It feels as if she just isn't getting much tummy time. Whenever she features Halle she is in that carried or laying down!

What age was your LG rolling though?

 

[Puffin_island]

hope she’s taken George to the doctor or a&e if the screaming is as bad as she is making out and has actually been going on for that long and hasn’t just decided for herself that it’s growing pains.

I haven't listened to that post as I don't have my headphones in. But like everything that comes out her mouth, Shan knows best.

Poor George.

 

[Dramallama2]

I've only looked at Liv's content once out of curiosity. I hated all that she posted as she uses her kids for klout and disguises it as 'raising awareness about SEN' (bs) but didn't realise she was self diagnosed.

For the record I am ADHD and fully diagnosed by a psychiatrist. My dad has it and I think my eldest may have inherited it but too soon to tell as she is only 2. It really annoys me when people throw the term around without fully understanding the end-to-end symptoms. It can be really debilitating.

Shan's short attention span is due to her spending way too much time on social media, nothing else. From what I know of her I'd sooner diagnose her with autisim spectrum rather than adhd.

I can totally understand how frustrating it must be for you and other who have an actual diagnosis and then these influencers jump on the bandwagon like it's some sort of trend without actually being diagnosed when really they have no idea! Liv talks about it in almost every vlog yet has mentioned before how she's never actually had a diagnosis. Seriously annoys me!

 

[Puffin_island]

What is that ugly red water bottle looking thing hanging from her kitchen lights? Looks awful

I had to go look what you meant.
I have a feeling it's maybe a paper lantern that George maybe made at nursery for Lunar new year?

 

[Nosymum]

My daughter undid her belt once while I was driving a busy road and I’m not proud to say I shouted big time (it scared me so much) she’s not used to hearing me talk to her that way and cried but touch wood she’s never done it again it shocked her so much. I tell her the car won’t start without seat belts on while putting mine on. I’d also never let her strap herself in when belts have to go properly on car seat she can help of course but did Shan expect George to do up his own seatbelt?!

 

[Nosymum]

She's just posted a reel about what she spent in May. So because they had to get a locksmith out and that was paid from the joint expenses, she then had to use HER OWN MONEY to cover groceries that would have normally come out of the joint budget. What the actual F?!?! I'm surprised she didn't take the locksmith money out of George's savings seeing as it was apparently "his fault" the locksmith had to be called out

I was literally just coming on here to post about this. I cannot believe that!

 

[Puffin_island]

I've just done a quick search and Liv doesn't appear to have a tattle thread. That makes me think she can't be that terrible or super problematic, especially as she has 82k followers. I mean I could be wrong but having a tattle thread to me is definitely a sign you are crap.

 

[myst3ry]

Shan commented on fabandelle’s latest reel and it made me feel so bad for her, as much as fabandelle have absolutely lost the plot lately they seem to have such a good relationship and I think Shan must see that and feel shit that she doesn’t.
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Re the latest stories - a footless onsie would’ve been much more appropriate than zoomed in videos of halle’s legs for thousands and thousands of people to see.

 

[cosmicstar]

This is disgusting - saying her son is emotionally manipulating her?! The levels she is going to for views and attention are vile. Poor George might find all of this when he's older, rather than seeing things that say how much his mum loved him, all he will see is that she thought he was emotionally manipulative, difficult etc...poor poor child.

This is how I always feel about her. In real life I truly don't know any mums that speak about their children like this. Not even those that actually did have Post Partum Depression (unlike Shan who faked it because she probably had the wrong expectations on motherhood) talk like this about their kids.
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If she thought she had ppd in the newborn days why not address it then? Why wait until H is 7 months old? Ohh yeah, because she wasn't offered free therapy, unless she got it on the nhs but there's no benefit for her then. She's using ppd to make a profit and it makes me sick, she's fucking vile.

She likes self-diagnosing herself for likes/profit/sympathy. So far she's had infertility, hypermobility and PDD. Yet to see proof that she had a specialist formally diagnose her with any of those.

As someone that has had both secondary infertility (we had to have IVF for our second-born) and formally diagnosed with hypermobility, I find it really insulting that she is pretending or thinks she "might" have these.

 

[cosmicstar]

Maybe “tradie wife” is going to be her next thing

Oh god. I hope she doesn't jump on that bandwagon. Can you even imagine?

 

[Nosymum]

Yea, betteryou do the kids bath salts, lotions, oils etc so she should be using those. You absorb magnesium better through your skin apparently

I use the lotion daily on my legs as get terrible irritable leg syndrome whether it’s a placebo or not it does help a bit. Sadly not gifted though

 

[MrsHeather]

I honestly don't know how Shan can deal with no bedtime routine every single night. My daughter fell asleep just before dinner last night and I had to bribe her awake with an ice lolly her baby brother still wakes in the night and I'm expecting baby number 3 so I'm exhausted, no way am I messing with bedtime even for one night

 

[Emsie]

hope she’s taken George to the doctor or a&e if the screaming is as bad as she is making out and has actually been going on for that long and hasn’t just decided for herself that it’s growing pains.

Did I read it right. Its been going on since he was 18 months and he's now what 3? So over a year?!

 

[Nosymum]

Agree, I'm a single mum. No financial support (I'm meant to get £4pw maintenance but doesn't pay lol) , no one to run anything past, no one to rant at if you've had a bad day, not able to nip out without taking the kids, can't leave the house after bedtime. The term solo parenting annoys me tbh

Feel exactly the same! It’s not even nearly the same, even when ash worked out she had someone to talk too and knew he’d be home at weekends or other times. Unless you’ve done it totally alone you’ve no idea. Wow £4 a week that would make a huge difference I don’t understand how the absent parent can not even want to help pay for their child. At least we don’t have to share Christmas and birthdays etc, selfishly I don’t know how I’d cope if I had to share custody or even lose a night (of course for my daughter I would and have tried to encourage a relationship)

 

[Puffin_island]

So Halle only has 5 different muffins for 2 meals every day for a month? That's not much variety for a nearly one year old.

Great exposure to different flavours and textures........NOT.

 

[cosmicstar]

Please tell me I'm not the only one who finds it annoying that the battery being full says 19% left when maybe it should say 81%?

Thank you - hard to tell without context. Maybe when it's nearly full it means 19% left to charge? Or does she mean how much battery SHE has left?


The main thing I noticed from those images is how low her views are on youtube

 

[whatshernameagain_93]

Just can't

 

[Super_Berry]

I can't believe I just found this thread. I used to love Shan back when she was solo parenting with George, but not it's a bit much. What does Ash do because I know he doesn't like being on camera but she seems to do everything.

 

[VirgoGossip]

I didn't meant to imply that tradies in general don't make any money. I know it's far from that! We've had to employ painters, joiners and all sorts to renovate our house and they make a killing!!

The way Shan and A manage finances does make it sound as if he barely makes any money and she is the breadwinner with all the social media earnings. She is always bearing the cost of things out of her own money! Not sure how true that is, but that's just the impression they give.

I get the vibe even if she wasn't making a lot more money and it was only a few quid he'd still want her to pay for more out of principle.