I know what it’s like to date a narc and they do brainwash you. Probably with the counselling etc, she’s seeing him for what she is. They are the best at manipulating situations etc. We could all see what he was but when you’re in that situation and he’s constantly telling you one thing and not to listen to other people, it wears you down. I thought they were as bad as each other. I do think there is a better way to go about things, he could have supervised contact with his son. Hollie can promote being aware of narcissists but I do think her diatribe at the minute is gonna be used against her by him and she’ll come out worse off.