I thought baby showers were usually for people having their 1st baby, not their 3rd?
Also, I meant to say this the other day when she was banging on about reading the bf book AGAIN...I totally understand her wanting to breastfeed, like, you do you boo, but I think she's going to get a very rude awakening with the reality, especially as it's the first time she's giving it a proper go, but with her 3rd child. With a 3yr old and a 2 yr old running around like they're on WWE, there'll be no chilling out in the rocking chair cuddling your sleepy baby as they feed. It'll be trying to stop them killing themselves/eachother whilst your newborn screams her head off because they're starving and you can't feed them until the other 2 chill the fuck out. I guarantee she will give in and switch to formula/bottle feeding within the first few weeks because it's easier (and that is absolutely FINE to do, I bottle fed all 3 of mine) but she won't be honest about it and will make out that she's in this perfect baby bubble where everything is amazing and they all sleep 7-7 (even though we know they don't!)
Also agree their house looks soulless, especially the kids rooms!