Well I work a couple of hours a day for mine and hubbs business I have shares / dividends so I have a bit of income but essentially I’m a stay at home mumBut your calling yourself a scrounger?
I think it’s a catch 22, ellun doesn’t work and is a scrounger, ellun does work and is taking a job away from someone who needs the money cause she doesn’t need it
if you are home doing your “duties” (and I don’t mean that patronising) doing the housework and kids shopping etc then no your not scrounging that is your contribution to your household but if you have a life of Riley and you don’t contribute and you put your kids in daycare when not needed and you have staff to clean and you invoice your husband and he pays all your bills like your car / petrol etc …….then absolutely you are a scrounger