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she does appear to be very ‘take take take’, in most interactions… but tries to disguise it as being an overbearing extrovert.
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So Helen needs to be worn out, like a toddler, to ensure she's bearable for Mr.bear in the evenings. Well, she should do a spot of volunteering locally, that could tire her out and she would be doing something nice for her community.
A longer dog walk.
Her own gardening.
Meal prep for the week on a tight budget.
Tidy and fold all her clothes herself, not make Grace or someother poor sap do it.
Take singing lessons. (Sorry, but she could benefit from professional help in refining her voice)
Join a choir, some are practising outdoors atm.
Guest on a load of podcasts.
Go back to being a teaching assistant 2 days a week.
Only watched Helen when she was getting divorced so I don't know why matt went off her?