No one has insinuated he's a pweirdo. Literally no one. Asking someone to clarify what they mean by using the word used (or any other word with multiple meanings/connotations) isn't insinuating or labelling the person in question. And for the record, I requested clarification because it can really damage a persons reputation to be labelled a nonce, and could be particularly risky online/on social media. Like others have said though, some people now use it interchangeably with dick/knob/twat or whatever, in which case, fine. There are many of us who only know it with it's original meaning though, so of course people, including myself, will think the worst (because its all we've known it to mean) and will ask for it to be cleared up.