In one of the books, there was a report of an incident on the plane when the Markles were returning from one of their (very few) official tours. Harry was asked to just briefly greet the press and thank them…and instead was very rude. When chided about it, he retorted, “Well you shouldn’t have made me do it.”
He has the mind of a child. This is a man in his mid-thirties who has to be ‘forced’ to behave with professional respect and dignity. He lets himself be filmed juggling outside a window… a child playing, doing whatever he wants.
He has looked so miserable at the few official functions he has attended. But in my opinion…it is because he feels forced to follow the old rules, do his ‘duty.’ He’s like a child, pouting because he cannot jump up and down at church, Like a child, he is constantly demanding attention, but wants only kisses and approval.
In my opinion,at some point, these childish behaviors will be directed at some of the US entities that are really crucial to their future…and that will spell disaster. He has already possibly pushed the RF too far. I think she is street smart enough to realize the danger in this…but I don’t think she can control that behavior in him…