Woah, I am well behind once again on this thread, but this has hit a nerve... I sadly lost a friend to cancer just two weeks ago today and I absolutely do not believe that your friend would have said those awful things before she passed. In my experience, my friend focussed on living life to the max, and sparing her time and love for those who were worth it. It simply does not add up.We had a mutual friend, actually more mine than hers who got terminal cancer a few years ago. After the girl passed away my ‘Meghan friend’ told me that the friend who died had visited her before she died and told her what an awful person I was and how I’d told a lot of lies about her and that I was dangerous. I mean, how could I even begin to defend myself against those allegations? The girl had died so I couldn’t confront her and it destroyed all the good memories I had of the friend who died. Seriously, I have never known anyone to go out of their way when they’re terminally ill like that to spread hate and lies, if you’re dying you want to be with people you love and enjoy your time left. The film ‘Love Actually ‘ says that when the people in the planes knew they were going to die on 9/11, they contacted the people they loved, they didn’t try to spread hate and lies.
Other friends say they don’t believe my ‘Meghan friend’ and that the friend who died never went to see her, but even though they say that I’m still torn apart by it. That’s how toxic she is.
Your Meghan is a venomous witch who has lied through her teeth. It's utter nonsense. I know it must be incredibly hard, but don't let that vile and despicable excuse for a human being, darken your happy memories with your other friend who is actually worth your feelings and attention.
Like many others, I had a terrible experience with a Meghan, but in the workplace. She was my manager and she drove me out of a job I loved and had worked at for over ten years. I moved on, after being broken down and becoming a shell of my former self, and managed to build myself back up again, but lo-and-behold, she bleeping managed to follow me (pure coincidence) in my next workplace. Who knew London could be so small?!
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I'm so very sorry that you've had this awful experience. It's an unimaginable pain to me, even having gone through a similar loss recently myself.