No doubt that Meghan found a way to get into the BRF although why is beyond me. The rules they are encouraged to follow (like the shellfish one for starters), all those engagements, etc, it doesn't seem worth it but then again Meghan's career wasn't really going anywhere fast in Hollywood.
When I studied abroad, I do remember there were plenty of awful stories about Kate before and shortly after she married Will (like how she was mean to the York sisters, etc) so I take these stories from tabloids with a lot of pause since, in the end, Kate didn't turn out to be the monster that she was made out to be.
I'm sure there is some truth to how headstrong Meghan is but I find it interesting all these stories of Meghan, and even the feuding between the brothers Will and Harry, are circulating at the same time when there are murmurs about Charles being poised to take over once the Queen passes. He recently turned 70 so he's been getting quite a bit of good PR press in regards to his birthday, his humanitarian work, and so on. I don't think it's a coincidence at all. The stories of his sons and their spouses put him in a more favorable light and some of these stories do get sanctioned by him so...