I just saw an interview with Michelle Obama talking about why she never had braids or more natural styles in the White House. She said the topic of her hair and dress was already a distraction from what she was to accomplish regarding kids nutrition. It was a huge scandal when Barack date wear a tan suit. She wanted to pick her battles. She she straightened her hair, wore weaves and wigs. I get it. Little girls today are sent home from school for having natural hair and hair styles. Recently congress tried to pass the CROWN act, a law to people from being discriminated against based on hair texture and styles associated with ethnic/racial background (because it happens) but it failed to pass in the Senate.
Of course and all that is completely understandable. I don’t judge anyone for any decisions they make about their hair or any other aspect of their appearance, particularly given societal pressures. I don’t think there is any set way to behave in life either (apart from being honest and decent etc obviously). Date whoever, hang with whoever. It’s their life and it doesn’t impact on anyone.
However, when some obvious shyster who is only ever motivated by their own gain in any situation, uses racism to manipulate their other half, force through a marriage, as an excuse for quitting the RF when money was the obvious motive, and as revenge against them for not getting their utterly corrupt half-in half-out deal, AND IN THE PROCESS THE WHOLE OF THE UK IS LABELLED RACIST then yes I’m going to have some questions about how genuine it all is, or when things don’t add up.
Don’t you think it’s a bit weird that she’s suddenly started slathering on fake tan like a mad woman for public events after years of looking, frankly, pale AF?
Do you think it’s okay for her to obviously utilise the ‘angry black woman’ stereotype to offset numerous detailed accusations of bullying in Valentine Low’s book (which she hasn’t sued over)?
Is it really okay that she talks about being treated ’like a black woman’ with such distaste?
Check out this quote: “Certain people don’t look at me and see me as a Black woman or a biracial woman. They treat me different, differently I think then they would if they knew what I was mixed with. And I think that is ― I don’t know ― it can be a struggle as much as it can be a good thing depending on the people that you’re dealing with,”
It can be a ‘good thing‘ that people treat her differently because they don’t know she‘s black - is that honestly an okay statement to make? Or ‘If they knew what I was mixed with’…?
Maybe I’ve got this all wrong and I don’t know what the fuck I’m talking about but I just find it all hugely problematic. She just uses it when it suits her, like everything and everyone.