Exactly. Which is fine. The 14 wouldn’t fit me either, neither would the 16 so she’s getting no shade from me on that. In fact I try to take no notice of sizes at all - what fits in one shop doesn’t in another and that’s ok. But if you don’t want to acknowledge that you’re not really a size 14 anymore, why keep bringing it up?!It looks so snug around the midriff - defo not the floaty look she is going for. No way the smaller 14 would fit.