Alice: If you sell the house, I'm leaving.
Ioan to court: please let me sell the house.
Alice: If you sell the house, I'm leaving.She was actually making sense here. No reason to stay in an expensive city in which you don't work. No reason to live in a crappy apartment because you can't afford better. No reason she and the kids couldn't relocate to England where at least she has relatives and maybe friends to rely on. All reasonable thoughts. She chose to spite herself instead. What a goon.
Title thread nominationAlice Evans - Only thing she knows is to Eat, Drink. Tweet, Repeat.
)Thank you @Lulugrace for hearing what I was saying. I tried so many times to tell people what I figured out, and they jump all over with excuses (but he left you! He left the kids!! Blan, blah blah). There is no justification. Tatters just get it. OK, you did it, you owned it, good on you. I feel a million pounds lighter since I posted yesterday. I actually feel heard, for once. I also have to say, my daughter accepted my apology with grace, and that is the main reason we could mend. I love her so much (I also love my son who lives with me - just in case he ever reads here and thinks I'm favoring her. He's 29, but kids, right?)
And, Lulugrace, good on you for thinking back on your mom now that you are an adult. It certainly puts some things in perspective. Also, I was an asshole at 14, too!! What comes around...
And back to Alice. What a cunt.
She's definitely got a tin eye.Aside from her lizard eyes, that necklace does not go with the polka dot and rickrack trim on her shirt. Separately, nice pieces. But Alice puts them together and...what's the opposite of a synergistic effect?
But Ioan hates his fansPosting this for Alice "he hates his fans" Evans as I know she reads here. Hi Alice!
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Ioan gets a restraining order Feb 22Where in the wiki do you find the document with all the messages?
It was a threat to make him come back. Like a child saying if you don’t do what I want I’ll run away from home.Whilst I agree she was talking sense, I don’t believe she was talking genuine intention. It was wounding words to inflict pain. In a nutshell ‘I’ll walk with the kids far away’. MOO
They are in the WikiWhere in the wiki do you find the document with all the messages?
In that section - I can only find the one about the house being sold... I think i'm looking at the wrong place.Ioan gets a restraining order Feb 22
It’s very similar to one we had already unfortunately.So, I've been thinking, a new account rocks up on X, and mAlice jumps on insta to confirm its not her; yet, whensome randomAlice leaks an unauthorised video of her daughter online, she does nothing? Surely if you were such a caring mother you'd be going to the ends of the earth to get it taken down, not mAlice though; clearly proving she only cares about herself
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Where in the wiki do you find the document with all the messages?
try this: https://www.docdroid.net/OWM76Cx/gruffuddvsevans-pdfIn that section - I can only find the one about the house being sold... I think i'm looking at the wrong place.
Many parents in this generation don’t set boundaries and allow their kids to be feral and rule the roost. That’s ended up being a very bad idea in a “normal”setting let alone a mAlice home.IMO, being a parent doesn't mean you are required to subject yourself to abuse. It doesn't mean you tolerate physical violence or allow your partner to be threatened and unsafe.
I believe settings healthy boundaries with love is what kids need, not the free range fend-for-yourself-and-do-whatever-the-hell-you-want child care extremism that seems to be taking place by the other parent. Throw in parentification and toxic enmeshment and I imagine a kid's soul gets weary and they feel the weight of the world on their shoulders. In turn, they likely become something or someone they aren't meant to be. I think that's happening already based on that ill-fated home visit.
No one is perfect and there's certainly room for different parenting styles, just not toxic ones that turn sensitive children into broken adults.
That's definitely my opinion.
In the end her world will consist of only herself. Because she is an evil, abusive, monster everyone always backs off because they just can’t stand being with her.It's typical Alice the way she said his mom was out of the loop that she hadn't spoken with them in years. Her yes, Ioan I don't believe. I'm sure he talked to them away from her to keep the peace in the house as much as possible. She seems to think everyone in her life is suppose to cut out whoever doesn't like her. That makes for a very small world.
Question for the legal eagles - is there a limitation re: time between when an RO breach was done and when the person can bring an action against the person? If it is months, then it could well be he is waiting to Feb to unload it all. @Hiraeth, @ButterTart what is the legal period of time/statute of limitations in CA?I still have the belief that Ioan has been advised to wait it out and then dump an atomic sized bomb of manure on her sorry life for all the RO breaches. ...
Good point, I hadn’t thought of that.Question for the legal eagles - is there a limitation re: time between when an RO breach was done and when the person can bring an action against the person? If it is months, then it could well be he is waiting to Feb to unload it all. @Hiraeth, @ButterTart what is the legal period of time/statute of limitations in CA?
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