Tim is just lazy and uninterested in being a parent and raising kids. He doesn’t like the responsibility and having to put your kids needs before your own cause he’s selfish he only cares about himself but he knows those kids make him the money he desperately wants cause he has no talent to make money and he’s too lazy so uses his kids in order to live the lifestyle he wants buying designer things etc. Ella is also selfish and she has had no interest in halo since the day she found out Halo was a girl cause Tim let everyone know how much he wanted halo to be a boy he made his disappointment so obvious he immediately lost interest in Ella and the pregnancy and then Ella probably felt bitter towards halo cause she wanted another boy to make Tim happy and be on his good side getting praise.
She hinted in videos months ago that parenting should be team work , looking after the kids should be team work etc and she sounded kind of irritated like she was venting while talking to the camera but she 100% was annoyed at how she was doing everything ( well hosanna does a lot too and Ella’s mum ) and he doesn’t do anything but she was clearly in my opinion afraid to tell him that directly so used the excuse of making a video talking about all that stuff probably hoping he would get the hint but he just stood there looking so uninterested zoning out cause they’ve had kids together for like 12 years now and he hasn’t stepped up he doesn’t do night feeds , he doesn’t change nappies and he doesn’t look after the kids cause he even said in past videos that he believes that’s the wife/mothers job to do all those things and Ella was there acting like she’s this perfect wife agreeing with him when clearly she is in a very unhealthy relationship. There’s no excuse for him to not be helping with something especially when he has no job.
He is not a hands on dad he is quite an absent father in my opinion he’s never really at home and when he is he’s on the Xbox or computer. Having to thank your husband for being in your presence and spending time with you and the kids is very weird. Ella isn’t even a good mother she doesn’t even want to be around those kids but doesn’t have much of a choice cause her mum can’t take the kids 24/7 and Tim is always out avoiding being at home but any chance she gets to not have to spend time with her kids she will take it cause she wants to keep up with Tim.
