What took you so long to unfollow? Did you hope for improvement? Most of us unsubbed literally ages ago. Not shading/blaming at all, I'm really curious!
honestly I think it was how much I really liked her in the beginning. My brother got me into her videos and she was such a breath of fresh air, and then when things started going a bit skewed I just held out hope maybe she was going through a rut with ideas and soon there’d be stuff worth watching again that didn’t amount to “watch me potter about extortionate shops waffling on about things I don’t need”. Now it’s just obvious that she doesn’t really care and doesn’t want to try anything new when she can just film herself doing whatever she was going to do anyway and call it a day.
Then it sort of shifted into “well her videos aren’t for me anymore but I still like her so I’ll still follow her on Instagram”. We’re the same age so I think a few years ago I related to a lot of her not quiiite having her
tit together but trying to do her best and find herself, and how authentic and non-influencer she was, but now it seems like she’s not even doing that and she’s just begging for free
tit and doing taste tests of things that don’t interest me.
Like others have said, I’d love to see her do something with her degree or push herself to try something new (the last thing of hers I really enjoyed was that high effort mini series where she tried different things and really put herself out there) but she just seems happy to buy pointless tat and act like a teen on tiktok instead. There’s a guy I follow who posts videos where he tries to follow every Julia Child recipe just from the cookbook, so even if she did something like that with baking or took on any kind of challenge that didn’t only last one video, was half arsed in execution, and originate from a viral tiktok I’d probably find it interesting, but it’s not going to happen any time soon.
And like that’s fine whatever it’s her life I try not to be judgemental, but it’s the tone deafness that really pushed me over the edge and was the final straw. I don’t think she means any harm at all, but the cost of living crisis is everywhere. People are going viral for advertising how they make £5-£10 cover a week of groceries, and how they dress to avoid putting the heating on over winter, and she’s here saying how almost fifty quid on chocolate isn’t that expensive. It’s embarrassing, and not meaning any harm isn’t good enough when at this point it takes more effort to ignore it than it does to be aware of it.
It’s been said here before, I think she just feels like a much milder version of Ruby Granger, who also acts much younger than she is and seemed to really regress in the lockdown, and is also painfully tone deaf, but I find it more disappointing because I initially liked Grace much more than I ever liked Ruby ahah.
I’m sorry for writing an entire essay here - it started off as an explanation and turned into an all out venting session, my bad!