Yeah, we don't care whether or not she shows him or not. That's not the point. It's half in/half out that's extremely annoying and also her alluding to travelling solo when she's clearly not that feels dishonest. I don't care if she's dating or not. A YTer I follow recently got married and announced it in a video, I didn't even know she was seeing anyone let alone they were dating for over 10 years. It doesn't matter that we never knew. She never mentioned it at all and, of course, I was very happy for her. There are plenlty of people who don't share anything personal online, that's fine. This is not and I think at the end of the day her being dishonest and disrespectful towards her viewers is what's going to slowly kill of her channel.