Baby is in hospital but weird how this is the most she’s post since giving birth…
She had SUCH high expectations of what she thought this experience would be. When it’s not been it, I wonder if the reality has hit a lot harder than she expectedIs she suffering from PP depression? My baby had RSV as well as a newborn and while it was bad, Grace’s reaction seems very extreme. Since the baby was born it seems like she’s in a very bad placeView attachment 1748086
This is what I thought too judging by her previous stories. It sounds like she really isn’t doing well mentally. I know Grace can also be a moaner/comes across as demanding but the way she’s wording things lately sounds like she really needs some help which hopefully she is gettingIs she suffering from PP depression? My baby had RSV as well as a newborn and while it was bad, Grace’s reaction seems very extreme. Since the baby was born it seems like she’s in a very bad placeView attachment 1748086
Vulnerable is the perfect word for it. I feel immensely sorry for her tbh, agree with @Ro98 completely like thank god she does have a huge and active village to help her through this part cos it’s bleeping hard as it is, much less with hospital visits and trauma. One day at a time you just get through it thoughIt makes sense that seeing her baby be admitted would be very triggering for her with her own history. Which is another reason why she shouldn’t have rushed into all of this. She really needed a solid few years of healing and rebuilding herself before the trials and tribulations of a new baby. I know Grace is generally very moany, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen her this vulnerable before.
this!! i honestly think if she would’ve experienced C early weeks / months she wouldn’t of had another. she’s too self centred to be a mum and give their everything to a baby.She had SUCH high expectations of what she thought this experience would be. When it’s not been it, I wonder if the reality has hit a lot harder than she expected
She’s absolutely vile using her poorly baby for engagement.
A blanket, a chair and a cuppa would be really nice, but seriously this, I’d be embarrassed ?!!!
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your last comment nailed it. She completely romanticised the idea of first trimester purely because she feels like she missed out.To be fair part of working in paediatrics is parental support too and if you have a nearly newborn parent whose young baby is quite sick and they are visibly upset,I would absolutely make them a brew and reassure them. Grace can be problematic but having a sick tiny babe in hospital is hard. One parent only can stay overnight in most cases so they do get upset and stressed.
She obviously not having the magical time she thought she missed out on.