I worry that she’s keeps mentioning more babies. She is going to have another baby, not because it’s a good idea to expand the family at this point (they need to heal and breathe) but because she’s desperate to get the newborn days. It’s sad that the next baby will be for that purpose
I can totally see her doing this. She can hardly take care of herself most of the time to be honest so a toddler and a newborn is a disaster waiting to happen.
And there is absolutely no guarantee that the second time she will have natural birth. The labour is so unpredictable.
Slight off topic.
Couple of years ago I knew a girl who basically all her pregnancy was talking about that she wanted all natural, no pain relief birth, just focusing on breathing etc., a bit like Grace. At the end she had long and painful induction which ended up in an emergency c-section.
She was absolutely devastated. She kept talking that she didn’t feel like she gave birth but the baby was just taken out from her. She said she didn’t feel like a woman, that her body failed her and couldn’t do one job it is supposed to do - give birth.
She was so determined to get pregnant as soon as possible just to compensate that first birth. She wanted to“ finish what she started” and have the natural birth. After that she had a quite a severe depression.. anyways…. I haven’t seen her for years now, don’t know if she’s had more children.
For me it was the other way around - I wanted all the pain relief possible cuz I ain’t no suffering ok, but when I arrived at the hospital just for a check up I was fully dilated and there was no time for any pain relief - I just died inside twice when they told me that!