despite writing a book on the toxicity of ‘hustle culture,’ her entire online presence centres around promoting just that.
I've been reading the War of Art by Steven Pressfield (highly recommend for self-employed creatives/freelancers), and it got me thinking.
Discussions around hustle culture have always made me feel a bit weird, then I realised the people that talk about it the most on social media all come from privilege?!???
I don't come from a wealthy background at all, so hustling is the only way my bills get paid, and is the only way I'll eventually be able to live a lifestyle I didn't live growing up (being able to go on holidays, buy high quality groceries, do nice things without feeling guilty, living somewhere nice, to me these feel like absolute luxuries but lots of people growing up around me had these things).
There's some people in particular that I follow that go on and on about making sure you take time for yourself, 'carving out time to rest' etc....and I'm like??? You think I'm struggling for fun? I'm
bleeping exhausted, do you not think I'd rest if I had the choice? (that said workaholics who don't NEED to do the most do exist, but that perhaps stems from something else, i'm guessing low self-esteem?)
Of course, lots (most) people don't have comfortable upbringings, so hustling is the default for those that want to get out of it. But it feels like it's just another thing that young rich people do when they realise they actually have immense privilege, but instead of being grateful about it they do mental gymnastics to 'fit in' and make it seem like they're struggling like the rest of us.
Even the toxic positivity thing, how the
duck else am I meant to cope and do what I need to do when standing up for myself or leaving a 'toxic' environment may result in a way more precarious situation? Of course you should always leave eventually, but for some people it's not as easy as just getting up and going.
Anyway - I mention the book because he talks a lot about the force of 'Resistance' being the thing that stops us getting somewhere, but also that sometimes when people see others who are actually working hard and reaching milestones, there's a sense of jealously, and they may start to try and bring these people to their level to feel better about themselves. in Grace's case, the whole pretending she has a high workload is her just insecure about the fact she doesn't need to work, but she probably does want to feel some kind of fulfilment, and is getting nowhere lying to herself all the time. Then her talking about how toxic hustle culture is is her just feeling guilty that most people work harder than her, but she wishes she actually was hard-working.
Interested to know if anyone else has read it or what other people's thoughts on this are!