what are you talking about? I’m rly fed up of people thinking bi people are pretending to be straight. Do you also think bi people are greedy, cheating sluts too? I can’t believe people still believe this tit in this day and age.
I thought this was a thread about gender, not shitting on people who dare to be attracted to both men and women.
It is about gender.
The point is that some entitled men will happily trash the boundaries of women who do not want to have relationships/sleep with MSM. And yes, some of them do withold this information, knowing that the woman would not consent. This series of posts were in response to a post on another website, in which the woman was getting abuse, gaslighted, and accusations of biphobia for this very scenario.
Women should be able to say NO for any reason, without having to justify it. It doesn’t mean a person is biphobic.
Women should also be able to talk about it. You’re already making hysterical accusations and assumptions against me and what I think, for daring to assert my boundaries and stick up for other women.
@Mamacita, OP also said this:
Like, what the
duck? Many straight men have sex without protection and they also cheat but sure, let’s focus on bi men. What do they think is going to happen if they have sex with a bi man? You can be straight and be with a bi man. His sexuality doesn’t change your sexuality??? Also, straight people get STDs and HIV too. They lie about their sexual history too, whether they’ve been tested, etc. But nah, OP is being blatant with their biphobia.
Stop screeching about biphobia. You are proving my point.
What happens if you have sex with an MSM is that you are at an astronomically higher risk of getting an incurable STI. This includes HIV, and incurable intestinal parasites. I’m sure you’d also be screeching “biphobia” if a woman dared to request an MSM partner have an STI screening. You may not like it but women having sex with MSM is a risk factor for catching STIs, as MSM are so much more likely to be infected. This is acknowledged by all health authorities.
Women are always expected to sacrifice themselves for others and are considered moral failures when they don’t. This is an example of that. It is also an example of men being seen as victims when they don’t have access to sex. Women’s orifices are not equal opportunity playgrounds.
No one is saying MSM are more likely to cheat, but many men of all sexualities do cheat. If a man cheats with a woman, you have a low risk of getting an STI. If you do get an STI it’s likely to be curable. If a man cheats with a man, you have a much, much higher chance of contracting an STI, and much more serious infections at that.
Regarding sexuality, there is more to it than just straight and LGBT categories.
For example, many women are simply not attracted to men who sleep with men. The same as some people are not attracted to talkative personalities, skinny people, brunettes etc. It’s personal sexual preference and doesn’t need to be changed or manipulated. It’s not discrimination.
but yeah it's also a bit disheartening to be accused of being bi, homophobic, or transphobic, just because of your personal preference
My people 