crikey.. she seems to have missed the whole point. I came from a similar bit less affluent background to her and her sisters. I went to work and immediately realised how lucky I was for the opportunities I got in my own home that others don’t get. We had our own issues but I had a warm dinner every night, lunch for school and parents who helped with homework etc.Not everyone gets that. My friends from from various different backgrounds and it’s an eye opener that life isn’t easy for so many. I’ve had my own challenges too for different reasons. But ultimately being open to having friends from various backgrounds both at home and abroad is one of the best ways to educate yourself, appreciate your opportunities etc.
To me, her post was tone deaf. It seemed like it was written a sympathetic 22 yr old. Not late 20s presenter with some idea about how it all works. We are the accident of our own birth place.
some of the nicest, most hard working people I know came from poverty and worked damn hard as soon as they were in the position to. My friends feel their accents hold them back. Whereas I never had to think like that.
maybe I’m detailing a bit but Doireann does seem genuinely ignorant of what an idyllic upbringing she had if podcasts are to be believed. If only every child got similar
It's an old tradition. Why doesn't the man take the woman's name? It stems from a time when it solidified a man's ownership over his wife. My child has a double barrell name
I'm sure that would annoy some people but it works for us.
In lots of of cultures the men do take the wife’s name. In Spain for example and lots of younger, forward thinking couples do it too here these days.
I took my husbands name. It’s an administrative pain in the bum. Would I do it again? Yeah. I want the same surname as my kid. Double barrel isn’t for us and our names don’t gel. I didn’t ask him to take our name. I was happy to take his.
Like most things in life, it comes down to personal choice. And like most things, everyone has their own opinion. We wouldn’t all be here on tattle if we all thought the same way