again going back to my post, frequent changing of hair (multiple changes in style length, colour etc on a frequent basis) is apparently a classic manifestation of having poor self image - along with other of the 9 key symptoms and behaviours of course - is very typical of BPD. Again, she just might be impulsive and indecisive buthaving just reread info on mind.org, I’m more convinced.
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Where I am you cant be an outpatient of a psychiatric hospital unless you where once an inpatient. Could be different with the NHS or in England though
Shes a narcissist so a doctor telling her things she needs to improve on is a no no
I was/technically still am an outpatient but have never had inpatient care for longer than a few hours (no overnight stays). But where I am all psychiatric care is done out of the hospital, you’re never near the main hospital for any appointments unless you’re being stitched up or whatever. I think with Gobbs she’s not willing to put the legwork in. Any diagnosis requires a degree of work and self reflection and I don’t think she’s actually capable of itWhere I am you cant be an outpatient of a psychiatric hospital unless you where once an inpatient. Could be different with the NHS or in England though
Shes a narcissist so a doctor telling her things she needs to improve on is a no no
Oh no I'm talking about private psychiatric hospitals sorry for the confusion!
honestly I think all her issues stem from having 0 mates but she's a bleep so won't make any soon xo
Ooh okay, no experience there! Just NHSOh no I'm talking about private psychiatric hospitals sorry for the confusion!
honestly I think all her issues stem from having 0 mates but she's a bleep so won't make any soon xo
I totally agree, she won’t make any whilst she’s such a closeted tit either! X
Could just have been Gabbie using the words ‘mental hospital’ for dramatic effect to be honest.Where I am you cant be an outpatient of a psychiatric hospital unless you where once an inpatient. Could be different with the NHS or in England though
Shes a narcissist so a doctor telling her things she needs to improve on is a no no
I agree she’s a narcissist. She goes out of her way to do the opposite of any advice she’s given - her diet being a prime example. Maybe her story about the doctor telling her to avoid social situations that make her anxious was made up, wouldn’t surprise me, she’s a proven liar.
Omg guys. Think we’re on to something here re: her eating grandad’s salmonella surprise, getting “sew pewrly”, the pity party, Jewniper Jane flying back…..
IT’S…..Rebekah Vardy’s account the bolognese
IT’S…..
As a person with diagnosed BPD, there are different types of BPD that don’t all fall under the same category or symptoms. I have never dyed my hair and last time I cut it professionally was many moons ago lol (for example). I also don’t have poor self image and am generally pretty confident. Having been around a lot of people with BDP, I truly don’t think she falls under that diagnosis, but I am also not a psychologist/psychiatrist, so can’t say for sure. BPD is a difficult thing to diagnose because either you have very evident signs and you can pinpoint it or you have to go by elimination of other similar and more common diagnosis, which is what they usually do. That being said, what for me is more a sign of BPD in her is bingeing everything : food, TV, social media, shopping uncontrollably. She does also show signs of manic episodes followed by depression so maybe bipolar but I think we might be hurting more than helping by diagnosing with no license haha
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Like many of you I've gone through some tit mental illness wise and it leads me to - normally - have a lot of empathy for people who I can see are struggling with their own mental health.
But Gabbie...ugh. It's just really frustrating. She's got every resource to get help including a supportive family (putting aside her Dad - that cousin who often responds to her, George, her Mum etc). Yet here were are in an endless cycle of blah; where she fills her days playing 'small business', buying tit she doesn't need, and eating beige food.
But Gabbie...ugh. It's just really frustrating. She's got every resource to get help including a supportive family (putting aside her Dad - that cousin who often responds to her, George, her Mum etc). Yet here were are in an endless cycle of blah; where she fills her days playing 'small business', buying tit she doesn't need, and eating beige food.
I believe It’s called BCS (boring bleep syndrome
) Also, these people could gobs a run for her money. I think this is what she does, albeit to a less dramatic extent
Münchausen by internet: the sickness bloggers who fake it online
Australian blogger Belle Gibson has been exposed for fabricating her tragic cancer story. But her strange behaviour is more common that you’d think – faking disease in return for online fame is now a recognised medical condition
www.theguardian.com
I think part of the problem is the lack of friends, which again, is also her fault. But the thing is, as much as you love and adore your friends, there sadly reaches a point in your life where you sometimes need to take a step back and focus on yourself and realise you can’t help or put any more time into a friend when they won’t put any work in themselves. Then the cycle continues, she wants a fun little girl gang like you see in the movies when life is just not like that. We have families to look after, husbands/wives/partners/kids.. we have work, uni, things to attend and our own mental health to deal with. If you’re struggling with mental health yourself, it’s very hard to help other friends that are too. I’ve had friends I’ve lost friends in the past because of being depressed and anxious and cancelling on things such as a best friends wedding, parties etc. although I was struggling, it hurt them deeply and I knew I needed to get some help. It wasn’t until I turned 30 and started struggling with panic attacks that I sought help and it changed my whole life. You never really know how bad you’re struggling until you start feeling better.. but when you’re young, you don’t even realise that there’s a better way to live. I’m very fortunate that I found a great psychologist and can mostly manage my life without any medication but I have to put in the work and use the strategies I’ve learnt Every. Single. Day.
I do wish Gab would do some things for herself, reach out to one of her followers for a walk along the beach with her starrrrrbs, go sing at a nursing home, anything, doesn’t have to be grand gestures and documented on social media
I do wish Gab would do some things for herself, reach out to one of her followers for a walk along the beach with her starrrrrbs, go sing at a nursing home, anything, doesn’t have to be grand gestures and documented on social media
Give her time, she's well on her way to munchiedom. If we look at the list of her past (present?) ailments, she's claimed to suffer from several munchie faves such as POTS, hypermobility of joints and IBS. The inevitable failure of Jewniper Moon will be the primary catalyst that'll launch her into full on munchie behavior.I believe It’s called BCS (boring bleep syndrome
Also, these people could gobs a run for her money. I think this is what she does, albeit to a less dramatic extent
Münchausen by internet: the sickness bloggers who fake it online
Australian blogger Belle Gibson has been exposed for fabricating her tragic cancer story. But her strange behaviour is more common that you’d think – faking disease in return for online fame is now a recognised medical condition
Of course, this is easily preventable if she snaps out of it and seeks professional help. But this is Gabby we're talking about...
The thing is, did the doctor really tell her to stop doing things that made her anxious r.e. socialising, or did they mean self destructive behaviours like for instance I have health anxiety so body check and google symptoms. It’s far more likely a doctor would have meant those things and Gobs has just interpreted it as an excuse to be reclusive and check out of life’s hardships.
I just think she’s incredibly mentally stunted and never got past the whole school and bullies thing. The way she talks, her vocabulary is so limited, and she has such bizarre fantasies that mirror that of pre teen girls, wanting to move away five times a year/have a baby despite barely being able to take care of herself/have this friend group that must all stay together and do everything together just like Friends and every other teenage movie.
School can be a nightmare and I get that, it was for me too, I didn’t feel like I had much to live for until I was around 21 and I kept making stupid mistakes with drinking/promiscuity etc and I also realised I needed serious help.
Her problem is she never sits down and thinks ‘right, why have all of these people disappeared from my life?’ and maybe realises she is the problem. It’s okay to do that, it’s what helps you grow, every single person makes mistakes but Gabby thinks she’s immune to that and being wrapped in cotton wool by her mum doesn’t help either.
Her illnesses are 100% a cry for attention and she has the money and resources to actually get help unlike so many other people in the UK, which is what frustrates me. I thought I had a severe stomach issue during my GCSES and it turned out to be anxiety and completely psychological because I was so worried I wouldn’t pass. She has nothing to do except sit and dwell on her symptoms so she feels these aches and pains everywhere, followed by yet again, her mum saying ‘oooh you’re a bit poorly Gabby, let’s write the day off and I’ll bake some buns’ etc.
Life really is not a movie. We all have jobs, partners, commitments, it doesn’t mean I love my friends any less for example. I do have a main friendship group but I also have friends from work, events over the years, people I’ve met through friends of friends, would they ALL hang out together? No, not unless I was getting married or something, because life doesn’t work that way.
I strongly believe everything is being ‘fewled’ by her mum, as well as justifying everything bad in her life as being toxic and everyone who asks a question or slightly disagrees as a bully. Even the kindest, most patient person will find that draining but it’s like she doesn’t even want help at this point, she’s so set in her ways and will hit 30 having these moments between ‘I just bought a new iMac, my life is sew great, duck all of the nasty haters and bullies’ and ‘I am going to sit in bed with bolognese all day’. She’s a grown woman, the money she drops on stupid tit she doesn’t need could pay for any kind of therapy she would like.
Sorry for the rant, I’m on the very long boring journey to work and felt this had to be said
School can be a nightmare and I get that, it was for me too, I didn’t feel like I had much to live for until I was around 21 and I kept making stupid mistakes with drinking/promiscuity etc and I also realised I needed serious help.
Her problem is she never sits down and thinks ‘right, why have all of these people disappeared from my life?’ and maybe realises she is the problem. It’s okay to do that, it’s what helps you grow, every single person makes mistakes but Gabby thinks she’s immune to that and being wrapped in cotton wool by her mum doesn’t help either.
Her illnesses are 100% a cry for attention and she has the money and resources to actually get help unlike so many other people in the UK, which is what frustrates me. I thought I had a severe stomach issue during my GCSES and it turned out to be anxiety and completely psychological because I was so worried I wouldn’t pass. She has nothing to do except sit and dwell on her symptoms so she feels these aches and pains everywhere, followed by yet again, her mum saying ‘oooh you’re a bit poorly Gabby, let’s write the day off and I’ll bake some buns’ etc.
Life really is not a movie. We all have jobs, partners, commitments, it doesn’t mean I love my friends any less for example. I do have a main friendship group but I also have friends from work, events over the years, people I’ve met through friends of friends, would they ALL hang out together? No, not unless I was getting married or something, because life doesn’t work that way.
I strongly believe everything is being ‘fewled’ by her mum, as well as justifying everything bad in her life as being toxic and everyone who asks a question or slightly disagrees as a bully. Even the kindest, most patient person will find that draining but it’s like she doesn’t even want help at this point, she’s so set in her ways and will hit 30 having these moments between ‘I just bought a new iMac, my life is sew great, duck all of the nasty haters and bullies’ and ‘I am going to sit in bed with bolognese all day’. She’s a grown woman, the money she drops on stupid tit she doesn’t need could pay for any kind of therapy she would like.
Sorry for the rant, I’m on the very long boring journey to work and felt this had to be said
As someone with bpd and bipolar I agree 100% I personally don’t see her as actually having either of them but definitely some traits. sometimes it just seems like she’s playing up the cliche “mental breakdown”. Arm chair diagnosing is useless as we only see what she chooses to put out and I bet she’d love the chance to blame her actions on a diagnosis if it’s something that gets her pity and concern and enables her to continue being the way she is
Documenting being dressed and out at 8.45am, like it’s something special. Purleeaasse.
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Do we think today’s the funeral? Or has she never posted about that?
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