And there’s also the blindingly obvious thing - she would not make a good parent. I know that sounds harsh, but she NEEDS to get her head straight before bringing another person into the Lindley House of Horrors. Kids are like sponges, and for the first 5 years or so she will be responsible for the primary socialisation of that child. With all her food and body issues, plus her general nasty, vindictive character... it sounds like a recipe for disaster. I’m a firm believer that some people just shouldn’t reproduce, and she is one of them. Sure, she’s got the money to feed and clothe a child. The kid wouldn’t go cold or hungry. But it takes more than just money to raise another human being.