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aidil

ALL OF THIS! There’s so much societal pressure to tick certain boxes by a certain age and it’s bullshit. I graduated from uni at 21, was in a steady relationship etc but I wasn’t happy at all. Fast forward to 29 years old and I was back at uni training to do the job I’d always wanted, single and only just about to buy my own place. But I’m a damn sight happier than I was 10 years ago! Don’t compare yourself to those around you @Princess of Scots, everyone is on their own path

Preach! When I went back to uni the second time I was the cOoL mature student hanging out with all the 20 year olds and I bloody loved it!
 
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iona.a.smith

Right besties thanks for the Sunday night therapy session but I have to be up early for my bus for my lovely little day out tomorrow so I shall be calling it a night m!
Lots of love and I shall catch up in the morning
 
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aidil

iona.a.smith said:
Right besties thanks for the Sunday night therapy session but I have to be up early for my bus for my lovely little day out tomorrow so I shall be calling it a night m!
Lots of love and I shall catch up in the morning
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Night pal! I should probably get off too, early start tomorrow 🥲
 
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Ultimate Lurkee

You're TWENTY FUCKING TWO, stop it!! Please, I beg you understand how much time you have to enjoy and do what you want, don't spend it comparing yourself to others
 
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Princess of Scots

Ultimate Lurkee said:
You're TWENTY FUCKING TWO, stop it!! Please, I beg you understand how much time you have to enjoy and do what you want, don't spend it comparing yourself to others
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Yeah. It's silly isn't it. I had a whole time line set up from sixteen. Looking back even now, it's mad i thought I could control the future.. Even still, I will graduate the summer before I turn 26. I am a winter baby so I got so trapped up in my own timeline I had when I was still in school.

I've had three years experience working in a difficult job. I'm thankful I have a bit of experience behind me. It makes me even more hungry to be dedicated with my upcoming studies.
 
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What's your point

To be honest I am married and wish I fucking wasn't so I sit in envy of the single people .

My hubby is a decent guy but he is so fucking moody and judgemental that I spend my life walking on egg shells! Not on a position financially to just leave and I'm not unhappy or miserable but more unfulfilled and just can't be arsed! I don't even want to meet anyone else I just like being on my own.

The only thing that keeps our marriage going is the fact he has a really good social life so he is out a lot (hallelujah for football).
 
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Ultimate Lurkee

It's not silly, it's years and years of asorbing society's expectations of a woman into how you see the way your life should pan out. It's easy for me to say give yourself a break because I'm looking back and knowing how ridiculous it all is. Whatever you do, please make sure you do it because you want to not because you feel you should. I get the wanting to be in a relationship as well but be wary of setting for someone who is less than you deserve and all of you deserve the very fucking best, whatever that looks like to you
 
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moonbrunette

I love that i was listening to a song 'A man without love' while reading all of this and all i can say is retweet!!! for everything that you guys said because i feel the same for almost everything, but at least we're here with similar problems and thats a litte bit relieving that we're not all alone
 
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Ultimate Lurkee

All of this but especially this bit, he's a moody fucker (although he is improving). He's said before if we break up I'd be with someone else in heartbeat but to be honest, I'd much rather be alone, I'm not lonely when I'm on my own but I am when I'm with him. Feels like he's waiting to give out about something constantly
 
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imolathesecond

Can’t speak about a husband being like this but you’re describing my dad. He’s the sweetest man when he wants to be but he’s got a temper and everyone is walking on egg shells around him. I think it really did fuck me up a bit and surely didn’t help with my anxiety. So yes, sometimes being alone isn’t a bad thing at all - it’s almost like relief.
 
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Ultimate Lurkee

That's my greatest fear, that my smallies are taking this in and it's affecting them. He knows if I ever walk this will be the reason and that's why he's making an effort to change but we'll see if it sticks.

I'm sorry you went through this, I know that constant thrum of anxiety waiting for the next attack or explosion or even just lecture on what you did wrong is exhausting
 
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Minttu

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Congrats to them! This is what I would call perfect timing, well done Checo!

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@1millionjellybeans at least we know he isn’t sleeping on your sofa again tonight and he has made it back to Mika
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This is exactly what I though when I say his story tonight

My parents met in their late 20's, and got me when they were in their early 30's. I'm more up to following their example, than some of my friends who are with their high school sweetheart and having had two kids, been engaged for about 7 years now, still no marriage in sight, but they are planning on buying a house soon
My host sister in the US is a different story, she is currently growing her fourth kid.

I'm also tired of the apps, and just swipe for fun, not looking for anything serious, and I'm too scared to meet up with people (Never got an answer from the dude in a red bull jacket btw), but I am a bit envious of people my age having found the one they will spend their life with. I already have one dog, and are planning on getting another two, so I won't be alone in life. Might also get a cat, just to have another asshole I'm the house
 
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Minttu

aidil said:
Same My mum met my dad on a night out and they were married for 40 years before we lost him. Imagine meeting someone on a night out now and still being together 40 years later?!
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Same thing happened with my parents, but they almost got 23 years before my mom passed away. But their relationship was goals, and I have learned so much from it and how a good relationship is supposed to be!

Doing some late night scrolling. And this came up. We love a pair of grey sweatpants, don't we?

 
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vaneln

HoneyRyder said:
Umm you guys what is Kelly’s special occasion and why is she wearing white???
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probably ad
same outfit, same place from this old post:


Also Victoria made a party for her boys, but i still don't know If Max and Kelly were there too
 
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spielberg


lando's next opponent?

also i saw that niall and lando are following each other now - a) the best of both worlds and b) when are they going to play golf
 
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