We have our toddlers toys where they can easily access them and they chose what they want. They are also encouraged to put away a toy before getting another out but this doesn’t always happen
we probably do one activity a day I have to set up but it’s usually when they ask for paints, crayons etc
I love the independence that the way we play helps develop. We sit and have tea parties, play with kinetic sand, paint together, build towers but it’s always what they want to do, rather than what I want them to do. It would also develop her boys individuality as they would have the freedom to play with different toys, I’m sure they don’t always want to play with the same thing!
Chill out Fopps!