she cant even bath the boys by herself such a supermumExactly and then she cant pretend. I don't have a problem with the amount of help she has, she's lucky to have a partner with flexible hours, a mother who doesn't seem to work etc, some women could only dream of that support. It's the constant need to tell everyone how self sufficient she is, how she can't do anything on her own as she has TWO babies, when other twin mum's do it day in day out
Just own the fact you have a lot of support