Babe, same.Genuinely one of the (many) things that has put me off getting another cat at the moment is the high likelihood of knitting destruction when I inevitably leave a piece lying around without thinking
Babe, same.Genuinely one of the (many) things that has put me off getting another cat at the moment is the high likelihood of knitting destruction when I inevitably leave a piece lying around without thinking
Insecurity and possibly is being/has recently been unfaithful themself, would be my guess. Is the partner punching above their weight in relationship terms? Sorry your friend is going through this, hope the new job goes well tomorrow.I've not had a proper grunk yet, it's awful of me to jump in here, advice welcome... for a friend
My friend, didn't get the job they wanted (it went to an internal candidate), but good news, another quick, short term opportunity is starting tomorrow.
This friend's partner is giving them a whole load of nasty tit, implying they are being unfaithful, all this the evening before they start their new job.
All unfaithful claims starting in the last half hour.
What's everyone's take on this?
Thank you x
Thank you, I think that might resonate. I'll pass on your well wishes to my friend.Insecurity and possibly is being/has recently been unfaithful himself, would be my guess. Is the partner punching above their weight in relationship terms? Sorry your friend is going through this, hope the new job goes well tomorrow.
red flagI've not had a proper grunk yet, it's awful of me to jump in here, advice welcome... for a friend
My friend, didn't get the job they wanted (it went to an internal candidate), but good news, another quick, short term opportunity is starting tomorrow.
This friend's partner is giving them a whole load of nasty tit, implying they are being unfaithful, all this the evening before they start their new job.
All unfaithful claims starting in the last half hour.
What's everyone's take on this?
Thank you x
I'm trying to phrase this carefully due to not wanting to assume gender, so for the sake of readability, let's call them AP (Angry Partner) and NP (Nice Partner).I've not had a proper grunk yet, it's awful of me to jump in here, advice welcome... for a friend
My friend, didn't get the job they wanted (it went to an internal candidate), but good news, another quick, short term opportunity is starting tomorrow.
This friend's partner is giving them a whole load of nasty tit, implying they are being unfaithful, all this the evening before they start their new job.
All unfaithful claims starting in the last half hour.
What's everyone's take on this?
Thank you x
Same thing, definite pattern. Mine would also phone me at work asking stupid questions like "where's the hairbrush?" when I was on my way into important meetings. He was the same kind of person who would always tell a lie even when the truth was easier. It didn't end well.Back in the mists of time - I was doing professional qualifications as well as working full time and supposedly having a relationship with someone we shall call AF (absolute fuckwit). This person always seemed to want to pick a fight and break up the night before I had an exam and then hook up again a few days later if I drove the 30 miles to theirs. It was one of my friends who noticed the pattern before I even did. AF was in the end a cheater who felt better when I was insecure.
Your friend’s partner is being an AF also and is possibly feeling insecure or covering up bad behaviour with projection.
This description is a lovely poemsometimes, this field has sheepoes in it. we can hear them from our bedroom window
and sometimes, it has tiny panthers who just won't come in for their tea
(it just got mown yesterday, so he has plenty of dry, warm, fresh hay to nestle down in)
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This comment reassured me I was actually on a food thread and not a cat oneOn the Nik Naks front I've just discovered the multipacks with three flavours don't exist any more?! This is a crime. Every time I bought them there was at least one extra packet in there. First I struggle to even get close to making the nightmeat song I keep hearing in my imagination then I have the shittest pizza I've ever eaten (Sainsbury's Plant Pioneers no chorizo and pepper - someone gave it five stars, they are a lying little weasel) and now this! Thank LJC for KCC cattos